“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Choosing an apartment for a bachelor pad

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Hi everyone,

I recently found this site and thought it would be a good place to get advice on my question. Basically, I've recently graduated college and will be getting a new apartment soon. What should I look for when picking out/comparing apartments so I choose one that can be an awesome (impresses the women) bachelor pad?

Most of the information I find online refers to interior design and decorating the apartment, but what I'm looking for is advice on choosing an apartment. Are there certain things I should look for in the floor plan, layout, local area, etc. that would make one place better than another?


Thanks
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Impress yourself. You'll be there a lot more than any woman.

Why anyone would live their life trying to figure out how to impress a woman is beyond me.

Don't follow - lead. You'll have more women than you know what to do with.
 

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Depends on where you live, the price, the condition, the size of the place. A 450 sq ft crackerbox can go for thousands a month if it is in an exclusive neigborhood. A sh1thole can go to up to $1100 in a crappy area. Look around and see what you like best. Nobody here can really help you since it is your finances and personal taste that will be involved. Get a place that you like and suits you and not to impress any woman. You will be the one living in it so you might as well like the place where you live.
 

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Quick Tips.
1. Buy an apartment as close to downtown/nightlife area as possible. If you live in an area that has no nightlife, MOVE. Get a studio/get a roommate do whatever you can. Use craigslist and with UBER you can live a little farther out since cab prices are cheap.

2. Buy a pillow top queen/king size bed.

3. Buy a 42 and up television.

4. Keep a mini fridge in your room stocked with bottle waters.

5. Have 2 bottles of wine.

6. Buy a nice sofa.

7. Load your refrigerator with various drinks and snacks.

8. Buy a plant that you can keep indoor or outdoors.

9. Keep your bathroom/entire apartment in impeccable shape. I always clean prior to going out.

10. Get interesting art, can be found cheap on craigslist.

11. Buy glade plug ins or insences and use them.

12. Tons of condoms by your bed.

13. Buy a nice bottle of shampoo, girls look down on guys with suave cheap products. I just fill an empty bottle of Paul Mitchell with some suave **** they have no clue.

14. Have a full bar and become competent in making drinks especially long islands, martinis, and vodka based drinks. I buy a bottle of grey goose and refill if with svedka or smirnoff they have no clue.

15. Buy really nice towels for decoration.

16. Keep your apartment clean and smelling good, I know its a repeat.

17. Get a bike and a bike rack to have on your wall.
 
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nmartinez12443 said:
Quick Tips.
1. Buy an apartment as close to downtown/nightlife area as possible. If you live in an area that has no nightlife, MOVE. Get a studio/get a roommate do whatever you can. Use craigslist and with UBER you can live a little farther out since cab prices are cheap.

2. Buy a pillow top queen/king size bed.

3. Buy a 42 and up television.

4. Keep a mini fridge in your room stocked with bottle waters.

5. Have 2 bottles of wine.

6. Buy a nice sofa.

7. Load your refrigerator with various drinks and snacks.

8. Buy a plant that you can keep indoor or outdoors.

9. Keep your bathroom/entire apartment in impeccable shape. I always clean prior to going out.

10. Get interesting art, can be found cheap on craigslist.

11. Buy glade plug ins or insences and use them.

12. Tons of condoms by your bed.

13. Buy a nice bottle of shampoo, girls look down on guys with suave cheap products. I just fill an empty bottle of Paul Mitchell with some suave **** they have no clue.

14. Have a full bar and become competent in making drinks especially long islands, martinis, and vodka based drinks. I buy a bottle of grey goose and refill if with svedka or smirnoff they have no clue.

15. Buy really nice towels for decoration.

16. Keep your apartment clean and smelling good, I know its a repeat.

17. Get a bike and a bike rack to have on your wall.
I don't know about all this...you're talking about buying big screen TV's, bike racks, decorative towels, and full bars in your apartment just to impress women man? Have you ever seen Fight Club? Maybe it's because I move a lot and this sounds like hell, but I agree with some of these points.

Always keep your apartment clean and smelling good, have plenty of condoms, enough alcohol to pour a girl a few drinks, and art doesn't hurt. Also #13 is genius, buying the cheap stuff (which smells similar) and putting it in empty name brand bottles. :yes:

To OP, keep it simple! I don't necessarily mean not owning anything, by simplicity I mean find places that are highly inclusive and reduce the headaches on you from moving in and out to paying bills.

I no longer go to college, but rent off-campus student housing in Tampa. For $580 per person, I have a 2 bedroom, 2 bathroom and this includes individualized leases, electricity, water, sewer, garbage, pest control, about 100 channels of basic cable, internet, parking, a tanning bed, a washer in dryer in every unit, a pool, hot tub, small gym, and furniture. When I moved in, the bed was comfortable enough and the black leather sofa and loveseat set was great. The rest was pretty basic but good enough for me. I love this style of living because anywhere I've lived in the past was similar pricing for an empty apartment with almost nothing included.

This style of living is not without it's drawbacks, because when something sounds too good to be true it usually is. Management is pretty long to respond to work orders and since it's a college community there are a lot of drugs, petty crime, and noise. But you do get a lot for what you pay for.

I would say regardless of the style of living you choose, a few universal rules include hard flooring (tile, wood style porcelain) in the common area is always nicer than carpet. Carpet is fine in the bedrooms, but a lot of apartments I had in the past were all carpet and this looks VERY cheap. Granite countertops and stainless steel cabinets always looks nicer than cheap lead or plastic.

The fewer roommates you can have the better unless you live with friends, because when you live with strangers the odds are against you getting along with everyone the more bodies in the room. Also, less is more because you can design the place in your image and have a say in how clean it is. I lived with 3 guys in a 4x4 before cutting it down to 1 guy in a 2x2, and this is a better situation. Hope this helps.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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nmartinez12443 said:
Quick Tips.
1. Buy an apartment as close to downtown/nightlife area as possible. If you live in an area that has no nightlife, MOVE. Get a studio/get a roommate do whatever you can. Use craigslist and with UBER you can live a little farther out since cab prices are cheap.

2. Buy a pillow top queen/king size bed.

3. Buy a 42 and up television.

4. Keep a mini fridge in your room stocked with bottle waters.

5. Have 2 bottles of wine.

6. Buy a nice sofa.

7. Load your refrigerator with various drinks and snacks.

8. Buy a plant that you can keep indoor or outdoors.

9. Keep your bathroom/entire apartment in impeccable shape. I always clean prior to going out.

10. Get interesting art, can be found cheap on craigslist.

11. Buy glade plug ins or insences and use them.

12. Tons of condoms by your bed.

13. Buy a nice bottle of shampoo, girls look down on guys with suave cheap products. I just fill an empty bottle of Paul Mitchell with some suave **** they have no clue.

14. Have a full bar and become competent in making drinks especially long islands, martinis, and vodka based drinks. I buy a bottle of grey goose and refill if with svedka or smirnoff they have no clue.

15. Buy really nice towels for decoration.

16. Keep your apartment clean and smelling good, I know its a repeat.

17. Get a bike and a bike rack to have on your wall.
This guy knows what he's talking about. The idea is to get something small and manageable both financially and in terms of upkeep, that is in an area within walking distance to shops/parks/nightlife/people in their 20s and 30s. Take location over size, and position yourself where you run into people as a part of your regular activities.

But make it yours and show yourself off. My house has a kitchen with cactus plants everywhere because I love the southwest, a bar room that's upscale and classy looking to keep all of my alcohal out of the other rooms, a loft at the top for my sports room/guy space, my bedroom set with an African theme because it's my favorite vacation spot, one guitar on the wall in every room because I'm a musician, the entire basement level turned into a music space, the garage covered in mustang/Ford signs because I'm into cars, rope lights a cross the deck and indoor rafters for the loft just for the sake of having fun...etc. Make each and every individual space a way to say something about yourself.

Look for ideas on the net and try to copy what other people have done, show yourself off and have fun with it. Again, a small place is much easier to decorate and make attractive, and keep it clean and simple. And kind of like with my guitars, drop hints left and right about anything about you that is attractive or interesting for women to see and ask questions about. Be creative.
 
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