"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sammo

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I gaze in to the masses of people who populate this universe, this planet, this country, this city, this suburb and even this street; and as i gaze, all I notice is people with complaints & problems. Each person with similair problems but unique circumstances.

They all believe they are nearly there - they have nearly found the secrets to success, but for some reason they don't become succesfull. Why? Because they think to much, they conceptualize life down to a T which is fine in theory but when push comes to shove - their theories are all bull****.

Every single one of us have a completely unique conciousness and perception of the world. Our standpoint and perspective is so different from the next persons that - there is no one stop answer of magic pill advice that works for everyone. There is no "one size fits all" when it comes to success. Sure I bet Pook you where inspired when you read Pook's "Be a man" or fingers "Authentic confidence" but the ideas behind those posts mean so much more to them - Why? Because they figured it out for themselves and came to the realisation first - hand.

The trick is to experiment with yourself, see what works for you and what doesnt. What thoughts motivate you? What prevents you from succeeding?

You've read all those books "Learn the secrets of millionaires!". How come the people that read those books aren't millionaires? Do you think the millionaires had to learn those secrets from a self-help book or did they experience them first hand. Screw my advice, screw pooks advice, screw EVERYONEs advice - it's all **** and is NOT compatible with your mindset.

So **** everything else, go out and start acting and evolving. See what works and come to your own realisations.

I try and help you guys by giving you an extensive guide on becoming "The man of your dreams" without going through all the trials and tribulations i went through until it struck me, those trials and tribulations are the things that made me "The man of my dreams".

Your mind is whats develops your inner self (your character) as well as your outer enviroment (your circumstances), and NOONE knows how to work with your mind better then - YOU. Up to now you may of developed a life of suffering and depression, but those thoughts can be reversed to produce a life of enlightenment and happiness.

Stop depending on me and all the people here. Grow your own set of nuts and evolve yourself. Why do you need a handbook on how to improve and socialise - it's rediculous.

As long as you depend on us you limit yourselves to what we have all ready done.

Depend on no other but yourself & watch your limitations dissapear.

Don't depend on me either - im full of **** - i dont know how your mind works.

Let me just say one thing:

If you want something done properly - do it yourself.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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*Applauds*

I wholeheartedly agree.

You know, the problem I am facing right now is that whenever I am happy, the whole world tries to bring me back down. They will not accept someone not complaining, they will not accept when you tell them not to complain, they simply cannot understand that you should look for happiness inside of yourself.

You try to help people, but I have come to believe the only advice you should really ever give someone is:
You know what you should do. It's your life, your wisdom and you can think of the best solution there can possibly be. Just do it.

(Which is indirectly the solution to the above stated problem :))
 
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Originally posted by Sammo
Stop depending on me and all the people here. Grow your own set of nuts and evolve yourself. Why do you need a handbook on how to improve and socialise - it's rediculous.
Amen.
 

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Sticky our posts (mines above yours).

Then, sticky everyone elses who has the same message.

Get off your @$$ and do something.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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BLUEox117

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chOose life.... thats a nice trance song.
 
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I-am-someone

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I actually remember the phrase from the movie Trainspotting :D

Trainspotting
Choose life. Choose a job. Choose a career. Choose a family. Choose a fvcking big television, choose washing machines, cars, compact disk players and electrical tin openers........ Choose good health, low cholesterol and dental insurance. Choose fixed-interest mortgage repayments. choose a starter home. Choose your friends. Choose DIY and wondering who the fvck u are on sunday morning. Choose sitting on the coach watching mind numbing , spirit-crushing game shows, stuffing junk food into your mouth. choose rotting away at the end of it all, pishing your last in a miserable home nothing more than an embarassment to the selfish, fvcked-up brats you spawned to replace yourself. Choose your future. Choose life. but why would i want to do a thing like that?

I chose not to choose life: I chose something else. And the reasons? there are no reasons.

Who needs reasons when you've got heroin?
 

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I totally agree with you, be CREATIVE and work with what you got.
 

BLUEox117

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Originally posted by I-am-someone
I actually remember the phrase from the movie Trainspotting :D
thats the trance song. the words are crazy spaced out.
 

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That's some good motivation!

I totally agree with you, Sammo.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i'm rite there with you. the concept of c&f didn't really click in until it stopped being a forced action and it just started to become something like a natural reflex. all from experience. if there is anything to be learned is that experience is the BEST teacher. go out and learn!!
 

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Originally posted by Sammo

If you want something done properly - do it yourself.
Amen.

If you ever want your life to go in the direction you want, only you can know the nuances and subtle aspects that need to be worked upon to get there - and nobody other than yourself can take care of that.
 

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Bumping this.
I really needed this.
 
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