"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Choose a woman to date.

Which one would you choose to date 5 months?


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Oxide

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make your choice. and explain why.

we are talking about a relationship of at least 5 months.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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d!ckmojo

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I'm smarter than any chick I've ever met: they're petty minded people, every single one of them~ just give me the hottest of the hot for my physical stimulation n I'll get my intellectual stimulation elsewhere!
 
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Cry For Love

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d!ckmojo said:
I'm smarter than any chick I've every met: they're petty minded people, every single one of them~ just give me the hottest of the hot for my physical stimulation n I'll get my intellectual stimulation elsewhere!
In a lot of cases its girls prefering to be that way rather than inable to be deep
 

kingsam

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d!ckmojo said:
I'm smarter than any chick I've every met: they're petty minded people, every single one of them~ just give me the hottest of the hot for my physical stimulation n I'll get my intellectual stimulation elsewhere!
have that attitude and you will never be happy

id bet if we could see your interactions you just cant commuicate with them too well...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Boxer

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I'm not looking for a girl with an IQ of 120. That being said I chose the 8.5 because I don't like perfect. Perfect is WAY to boring.
 

SrDedosRapidos

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Its pretty simple. I hate dumb women. Just got out of a relationship with a girl who had no hobbies outside of reality TV. She was embarrassing to be around when she drank as well. Extremely weak willed and complacent with doing nothing interesting with her life.
 

d!ckmojo

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kingsam said:
have that attitude and you will never be happy

id bet if we could see your interactions you just cant commuicate with them too well...
Actually I can communicate well with chicks~ got plenty of practice growing up with 3 sisters:cheer: I also know what they're into: drama, celebrities, teen fiction (used to be harry potter, now its twilight), gossiping about ppl in their circle of frnds, etc.

But it just so happens that I'm into other things like military history, economics, politics, sport, business strategy, eastern philosophy and mysticism, etc.

Of course I never talk about that stuff with women coz it wld bore them to tears, so I just flirt n fool around with them, pay 'em out, be sarcastic, basic c+f and kino n whateva else. I'm attracted to women for their beautiful bodies, and I also like the kind of open naivety that hot young women have. The girls that I know who consider themselves to be intelligent invariably have militant left-wing feminst political views and want to label any expression of male sexuality as "sleazy".:nono:
 

dj_china

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what does "date for at least 5 months mean"

this means I must remain exclusive to her for 5 months?
or she will remain exlusive to me for 5 months, no matter how much of an @sshole i am?

to marry, definitely 7/10
to date for an undefined period of time, definitely the 10, but then I'd probably get tired of her before 5 months. and probably persuade her to stay with me exclusively while I date other girls :)
 

SandHawk

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I'd go with a 7 that's intelligent and capable of having a good conversation than anything hotter yet stupid. Simple banter doesn't do it for me, as I'm an intellectual minded person. I love a good debate/discussions and hate it when people do things in life without being able to tell why they do it.

However, looks decay in 10 to 15 years, while carrying yourself in a very radiant way, great smile and intelligence usually don't. And that's the thing: I've dated quite a few chicks that weren't extremely hot when photographed, but when you saw them, they were overwhelmingly attractive due to the way to stood in life and how they presented themselves to the world. And THAT is what is more important than anything.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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