“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Choice between two women types, which would you choose?

Night Owl

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WC2 said:
Honestly, a mixture of the two.

If we're talking LTR here, she's gotta have at least a few traits. This would be my ideal woman.. but honestly if you hold every woman to these standards, you will never find one.

First of all.. my most important physical trait ; NICE, SMOOTH SKIN

1) Brunette or Black Hair.. that's just me
2) Fashionable
3) Intelligent
4) Doesn't buy into 'fads' or corny trends
5) Not white trash
6) Has experienced wealth, but doesn't live for it
7) Crazier in bed than she is when she fights
8) Knows the big picture (i.e. the world outside of us)
9) Travels
10) Has impressive goals
11) Won't cling to me all the time
12) NICE SKIN VERY IMPORTANT
13) Has her own favorite hobbies and music, but also enjoys trying mine
14) Lets her guard down more than on occasion
Sorry, I am already married to her hehehehe

Seriously - I wrote a list like that many years ago, put it my wallet and forgot about it. For five months, I passed this woman every morning while I rushed to work - we use to just nod in passing or a quick hello as I was nearly always running. Then one day, right out of the blue, she stopped me and asked if I would like to go for a coffee - I was totally stunned as I never really looked at her properly before - under all those winter hats and scarfs was a very pretty woman, not only that she ticked my list completely and more. 15 years later we are still together and very happy.

Okay, why I am on this forum then? I looking for ideas to keep the relationship fresh which is very important - I picked ups some great ones too.

Also, with my years of knowledge and wisdom aka big mistakes - I like to see if I can help others who are not as far down's life path than me.

Remember that woman you seek could be right under you nose - so try looking a bit harder next time you are on the way to work for example.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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bukowski_merit

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Rollo Tomassi said:
C. Get back in the gym and stop tickling fatties.
I don't even know who the woman is - but if those pics are real (see: not photoshopped to death) - then she's certainly not fat... She can't be more than 130-140 (depending on height).... The only part of her that looks fat is the one part that i love to be fat in women. Well, actually i guess there's 3 parts - i find thick thighs and @ss to be acceptable (as well as tits), i guess the thighs are accepted because it's nearly impossible for a woman to have a nice thick @ss without having thick thighs to accompany the extra weight =)

One of my current FBs has 38DD tits, the firmest thick @ss i've ever felt, and everything else is tiny.... She weighs 128 and i'd guess half of that is her breast and @ss =)

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As for picking between the 2: Without knowing the most important things (sex drive & self-esteem) - I'd go with A. I'm attracted to feminine women, who submit easy to masculine men. Type B seems like a lot of modern non-party type college women (dorm rats); the type a lot of guys develop crushes on because "she likes all the same stuff as me". I honestly get sick to my stomach when im around women like that.... I feel like they're trying to trick people into thinking they're so rad just because they like all the boy stuff. They lack the self-esteem to wear a dress, so they wear super mario shirts and dumb sh!t like that... If a woman starts trying to talk sports with me - that's the worst! But, most guys like that kind of stuff....

I'm just saying... what can you cook me? And, how long can you fvck before you run out of energy???
 

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the_govner

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Night Owl said:
Sorry, I am already married to her hehehehe

Seriously - I wrote a list like that many years ago, put it my wallet and forgot about it. For five months, I passed this woman every morning while I rushed to work - we use to just nod in passing or a quick hello as I was nearly always running. Then one day, right out of the blue, she stopped me and asked if I would like to go for a coffee - I was totally stunned as I never really looked at her properly before - under all those winter hats and scarfs was a very pretty woman, not only that she ticked my list completely and more. 15 years later we are still together and very happy.

Okay, why I am on this forum then? I looking for ideas to keep the relationship fresh which is very important - I picked ups some great ones too.

Also, with my years of knowledge and wisdom aka big mistakes - I like to see if I can help others who are not as far down's life path than me.

Remember that woman you seek could be right under you nose - so try looking a bit harder next time you are on the way to work for example.

Dude, don't you ever feel like being single again and going James Bond on the world?

That's what's holding me back, I want to randomly go to an island and **** everyone there and have an adventure. Marriage???
 

Night Owl

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the_govner said:
Dude, don't you ever feel like being single again and going James Bond on the world?

That's what's holding me back, I want to randomly go to an island and **** everyone there and have an adventure. Marriage???


Been to that island many times in the past and made many memories. I was single for a long long time with many casual relationships and notches on the old headboard.

But I did meet this woman that ticked all the boxes and more. I was never the marrying kind, and though sole mates was a right load of bull. Yet, now I do believe there is somebody to share this life with. How long it will last I can't tell - nothing lasts forever, but I am not frightened to say 'Next' and don my James Bond tuxedo once again.

I think that because I adopted this "if it goes wrong I am more than prepared to walk away attitude" it adds a different dynamic to the relationship than in most marriages. It keeps my wife on her toes, and she goes out of her away to please me in so many ways (other than sex - which is superb and frequent). The other thing is I have a large 'fan club' as my wife calls it of about 100 women in the area where we live that would be more than happy to step into her shoes at a moments notice. As I tell her - nobody wants a man that other women don't want.


I am married yes, but on my terms. I have taken a lot of tips on here and used them in my relationship - God bless Pook and others... You rock dudes !
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Rachel is not fat.

I saw a clip of her, where she is next to Jennifer Love Hewitt, who physically looked like a 12 year old boy in comparisson.
 

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Girl A for short term because girly girls (eg into fashion etc) turn me on more. Who is Rachel Ray though? Hope she's not like some beached whale.

Girl B for long term because she'd be easier to talk to. ONLY because she's easy to talk to though.

Also to the guys saying "omg B, A isn't good enough for me." You can only say that when you are a big shot pimp with billions of girls cumming their panties over you lol. To me any hot girl who makes me wanna fvck just by looking at her is already more than worthy in my eyes, pretending she's not good enough when you clearly still want her is just...
 

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Rachel Ray is cute in the face, but she has a huge behind.
Of course some guys like that sort of thing (like Sir Mixalot).
 

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I will chose any women a 5 or better in looks who is not fat and is willing to F quickly and cheaply..

most average guys can talk pick but have to take what they can get these days its veery hard out her if you are not alpha (rich, good looking, etc)...lol
 
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