Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
The chocoloate bar is obviously real though. They probably think they would rather have a sure thing than a worthless hunk of metal.If the silver was fake, you'd only lose out on a chocolate bar. People are dumb.
That's the thing. Nobody actually asked to look at the silver, or asked if it was real. Since they didn't, I'm assuming they thought it was real, and assumed that real chocolate was a better bet than real silver.They probably think they would rather have a sure thing than a worthless hunk of metal.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Or they weren't confident in their ability to accurately identify real silver.That's the thing. Nobody actually asked to look at the silver, or asked if it was real. Since they didn't, I'm assuming they thought it was real, and assumed that real chocolate was a better bet than real silver.
I seriously if you did a proper survey and asked the average person, "which would you rather have, a pound of silver or a pound of chocolate," the most people would choose silver. I doubt the average person on the street has any idea that you can actually take a piece of silver somewhere and exchange it for money.Or they weren't confident in their ability to accurately identify real silver.
If that were true then none of them would accept the chocolate. The silver might be fake (assuming they knew what silver was) but why even TAKE the chocolate if it could be easily laced with poison?Or they were suspicious of the entire interaction
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.