"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Chocolate or Silver?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
zekko
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The chocoloate bar is obviously real though. They probably think they would rather have a sure thing than a worthless hunk of metal.
It's not like 10 ounces of silver is going to change your life.
I like those metal bars though, they just look cool. They remind me of the bars of latinum used as currency on Star Trek: Deep Space Nine.
taiyuu_otoko
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Same dude made another video where he offered people a genuine ounce of gold, for $10. Nobody took it. Then he walked across the street to a metal dealer and sold the gold for over a grand.
The point of the above video is that anybody who understands the value of silver to take the silver, find a place to sell it and get $140, but it might take a little bit of effort.
The point of the above video is that anybody who understands the value of silver to take the silver, find a place to sell it and get $140, but it might take a little bit of effort.
That's the thing. Nobody actually asked to look at the silver, or asked if it was real. Since they didn't, I'm assuming they thought it was real, and assumed that real chocolate was a better bet than real silver.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
zekko
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Or they weren't confident in their ability to accurately identify real silver.
Or they were suspicious of the entire interaction - just like I am whenever I receive a flyer in the mail from the local car lot.
taiyuu_otoko
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I seriously if you did a proper survey and asked the average person, "which would you rather have, a pound of silver or a pound of chocolate," the most people would choose silver. I doubt the average person on the street has any idea that you can actually take a piece of silver somewhere and exchange it for money.
If that were true then none of them would accept the chocolate. The silver might be fake (assuming they knew what silver was) but why even TAKE the chocolate if it could be easily laced with poison?
If they were suspicious at all they would have just not taken either.
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I'm not sure how to consider the outcome of the experiment.
It either shows that people is unable to postpone instant gratification for a bigger one later or they simply mistrust anyone around and pick whatever option they are sure is not scam.
It either shows that people is unable to postpone instant gratification for a bigger one later or they simply mistrust anyone around and pick whatever option they are sure is not scam.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.