"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Chlamydia

Cappy da pimp

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So me and the gf decided to get tested the other day. We both got calls back today saying were positive for Chlamydia. I dont know who gave it to who. But now with thanksgiving break we cant get back to to get medicine till monday. Im not as worried as she is cause I think everything will work out once we get the meds. I think I just needed to vent and get this out. But any advice you guys have would be appreciated.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Chlamydia is only serious if its left untreated. If left untreated for a long time it can cause infertility in women, dunno if it even does anything serious to guys. Medication is easy, take it and everything goes back to normal in a day or so. No biggie.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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as soon as possible the meds need to be filled and taken and no one should have sex until both of you have seen the dr and they say you are over it.
 

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Originally posted by Phoenix_of_the_ashes
Can someone describe this sickness to me please?
Google: chlamydia

It's really not that hard...
 
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Originally posted by Phoenix_of_the_ashes
Can someone describe this sickness to me please?
yellow (smelly) discharge from your penis.

If you ate her out, the bacteria can collect in your throuth - swolen throuth.



-make sure you don't have sex with her untill your are treated...
and yes, if left untreated, it can cause infertelity for guys too.
 

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You feel like da pimp now huh, yeh.. you goatee wearing italian wop head or some nigga fresh looking cologne clubber, you da pimp

Word out to the geeks and nerds, work out in the gym, don't be like those good looking slick willy bar/clubbers or those sport jocks - Trustme, you're the bigger man. WE're the bigger man.
 

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Originally posted by Rec_rejection_phobic
yellow (smelly) discharge from your penis.

If you ate her out, the bacteria can collect in your throuth - swolen throuth.



-make sure you don't have sex with her untill your are treated...
and yes, if left untreated, it can cause infertelity for guys too.

Discharge as in pee?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by bluelemond
Discharge as in pee?
NO

If you are not circumsized you would notice the discharge around the head of the penis once you pull the skin back. If you push the skin back over the head, there would be a moist yellow discharge being pushed in front of the skin.... If you are circumsized - i have no idea, I guess you would notice a dark yellow mark on your underware...
 
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