You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
16 hour days in sweatshops will do that.Bumsniff said:Since America is in deep debt to China and most of our products come from there maybe one day the US will be completely taken over by China and hopefully the Chinese will whip the libtards, feminists and women here into shape.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
China (and the American people) are being played. Just like Japan was.Bumsniff said:Since America is in deep debt to China and most of our products come from there maybe one day the US will be completely taken over by China and hopefully the Chinese will whip the libtards, feminists and women here into shape.
Thats quite possibly the stupidest thing ever written on a pickup forum... dude look at what you wrote.Thinking that your purpose in life is to pop out kids is a sign of ignorance all over the world
goundra if you were a woman I'd buy you a strawberry cheesecake and take you on the fanciest filipina cruise evergoundra said:no wonder you guys can't get any pvssy. You are a bunch of jerks when it comes to women. If I was a woman and heard you talk this bs about "putting me in my place", I'd bust your nuts, for real.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
While it's true that empires rise and fall just like the tide, that last two have been a bit unique in that their currencies were the dominant global currency. The gold backed pound with the U.K, and now the dollar the the U.S.Fatal Jay said:China or Russia will be the next superpower to the world, America time is over. It has always been like that for centuries, Egypt had it, Rome had it, the Greeks had it, so on and so forth, no one keep the title forever.
We don't owe the Federal Reserve any money, They create money from nothing, and right now are creating way too much money which we unfortunately experience as inflation. Well inflation of prices + deflation of income which basically just means everyone becomes more poor. Great job US Banking system and it's political backing...YOU ROCK!!!:rockon:Bible_Belt said:The US is in debt to the Federal Reserve several times more than it is to China.