Chilling with a female platonic friend.

[Travel memoir21]

Just chilled with a female friend last night.

We went walking at our local University and chatted a bit. I’m a bit of a loner anyways, I have male friends I can call and chill with on the weekends but they sometimes cancel their plans so it’s good to have a back up.

We might go chill at a cafe again this weekend.

Good times. We’ll see how this goes.

 

[Gamisch]

If the point is to get out of "platonic zone" ,you better move fast. I dont know the history between you guys but it doesn't even matter (unless she is an ex from someone REALLY close to you..).

Second meeting is still a chance to make a move . At some point, after 3 or 4 "platonic " meetings you actually settle in the friendzone indefinitely and set this platonic relationship in stone. You are now her ghey best friend.

If she's hb6,5 or more then that's cope. Tbh.

 

[LTG71]

Depends how long you have know this woman. If you’re old friends, then this is alright with no expectations. If you are trying to make a move, this familiarity will backfire if you take too long. The issue I see is we men don’t typically spend much time with women we don’t find attractive. You’ll turn into her gay male girl friend.

 

[corrector]

Congratulations!

 

[corrector]

You should see if your moral values align and express your intent to start courtship. Do not just chill but ask probing questions to see if she is really a good fit. You dont have the time to waste unless you know it can go somewhere. She has to know you are courting her and your values (you said you are a Christian) are to wait until marriage. She will respect you if she values your faith and wait.