"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Chilling out

Breadstick2000

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Much about this doesn't seem to be posted on here, and I feel it is important.

Why???

From spending time to relax etc, weather its falling asleep in the bath or calapsing on your bed for 10-15mins it can really calm your point of few, aspecialy with women. It also makes you feel a lot happier and in control :)

It can also change the way you apear and sound, it makes you seem more 'real' and a lot more sexy too, and that gets extremly good responses just from having a relaxed voice. This doesn't mean sounding boring and lazy, just freindly and easy to talk to.

Slow down, whats the rush?

When chilling out, forget about all of your thoughts and other things, you can worry about that later.

It will change your point of view and give a good feeling of satisfaction.

What is your thoughts on this?


- Breadstick -
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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LaZaRuS

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Yeah I'de have to agree with that. Just chillin always helps me put things into focus and relax.:)
 
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