"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Child's play.

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Not hard, not hard at all. I mean, if billions of billions of people and animals were able to get laid all the way up until now, surely you can too. It's not that hard!!!

Don't ever change for anyone else. Don't ever try to be happy for somebody else. Do not set goals to please anybody else. It's all about you. You you you you you. No matter how hard they try to show it, they don't care about you. Your best interest is not in their hearts. That's damn ****ing right, I'm telling you to shut off everyone. Right now, it's about you.

Why am I writting this? The world needs change and this is where it's going to start. I saw the most horribly executed attempts at seduction today so I must make sure it's clear here.

What she says and what she does. Two different things. What she says isn't worth two squirts of piss. I don't care if you know her since before you were even conceived. What comes out of her mouth should never enter your reasoning. Not at this stage. Your buddies too. Everyone, not worth a dime.

This bros before hos bull**** must go out the window. Some people are better than others. For example, ourselves. I don't care who has what potential. So far, they haven't displayed much. That flaming hot amazing chick comes by and your buddy wants her; may the best man win. Don't try to fool yourself into some false honor by not going for her because he's trying to think of every backdoor to her.

Analyzing... oh dear. Your emotions MUST stay out of all reasoning. Your desires, emotions, goals... They all will cloud your judgement. Their is no 'gut feeling' to go with. There's a right way and a wrong way. We often only see what we want to see, but rest assured. Soon you'll be forced to see what is really there and most often then not, it's a whole load of NOTHING. Don't delude yourself...

Game is simple once you get it straight. Run in looking for the kitty and you'll get nothing. You know who I want to be with? A person I can relax and have the time of my life with. Everytime a girl comes to me with d*ck in mind (trust me, you can see that coming a mile away. So can they!) it's just one MAJOR turn off. Relax, have fun. Things will flow naturally. Quit thinking about it. Yes, it would be COOL to get laid. But now's not the time. Now is the time to be the most amazing person anyone has ever met. I'm not attracted to some heavily attached bimbo. Nor am I attracted to idiots or ugly people. And not at all in people who follow the flavor of the month. Please, regular people are everywhere. We aren't looking to join the pack, are we?

You came to this site because you want to be the sh!t. Well, getting laid isn't the sh!t. Sorry to burst your bubble. One hour of pleasure is nothing compared to a lifetime of being who you want to be. These pathetic goals you have now which happen to revolve around another person, will be dust in the desert pretty soon. You're getting new clothes. You're dressing well. You're walking around like you have purpose. Ever seen a dog greet it's owner? Do you see those wide beady eyes filled with happiness? My dog is not the only creature that displays that. I'm telling you, it's not that hard.

People don't think you're cool becuase you wear nothing but ambercrombie or if you have 'timbs'. People think you're cool when you are enjoyable to be around. Do you know how simple that sounds?! It boggles my mind too! Can you believe that all these past failures are because you're not ENJOYABLE!? What gives? What have you been up to? Getting pissy over remote things. Please, grow some balls. Lighten up.

Some kid came to appologize to me about hitting on my ex and another came to explain why he was leaving my circle of friends. Honestly, what do I care? Do what you want! I don't care for your emotional drama crap. You're not regaining coolness in my eyes for telling me this. Drama queens are in the past my friends. We don't have time to listen to boring stories or hang with rejects (no pity, every man is responsible for where they are.) You have this goldmine of information right here. It teaches you to become a Man. Not some mature serious adult. But somebody who knows how to live life!

It's not that hard!!! All it takes is a bit of will and a bit less 'I'm a jackass that believes that all situations must have some bad in them'. I don't believe in bad. This isn't some mysterious philosiphical bullcrap. I honestly do not ever feel like things are 'bad'. All situations start somewhere, it's up to me to get it to where I want it to be.

Child's play!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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wow, two amazing posts in immediate proximity

i think this also helps me with my other post about my buddy

thanks lik, this has truly been a shining evening of posting for you

bible material
 

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Yo I give you two CLAPS kid.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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People don't think you're cool becuase you wear nothing but ambercrombie or if you have 'timbs'.
That was a haymaker to the face....I needed that.
 

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good post man

EDIT: 56,000 high school forum post:D
 
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"You came to this site because you want to be the sh!t. Well, getting laid isn't the sh!t. Sorry to burst your bubble. One hour of pleasure is nothing compared to a lifetime of being who you want to be. These pathetic goals you have now which happen to revolve around another person, will be dust in the desert pretty soon. You're getting new clothes. You're dressing well. You're walking around like you have purpose. Ever seen a dog greet it's owner? Do you see those wide beady eyes filled with happiness? My dog is not the only creature that displays that. I'm telling you, it's not that hard. "

The truth is pretty isn't it!?

Man,,Its like death..it just a phase of life until its a cold reality and same goes with life...all that stuff you said I totally understand especially after an incident or two that I've posted about recently. No one gives two ****s about you and its up to YOU to rise above it all..

There's a time when you've simply gotta tell all these f*cks in your life that carry their briefcases of bullsh*t to get the f*ck away cuz that sh*t stinks man.

I totally agree with being cool is being an enjoyable person and not dressing up for the f*cking dollhouse and being a f*cking lamb. Retsam, you and I are of the few that knoweth of the truth and it isn't f*cking pretty.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Your post got me thinking, why the **** did I come here in the first place. Basically all I took away from this site was "how to be an ******* 101". I mean I'm a grown ass man, and while I take care of myself and like to do for myself, my attitutde stinks and is childish. Went from being mr. cool, clam, quiet, to Mr. Flashy Flashy ******* who knows all and sees all. The thing is while this site helped me get a back bone, say what I mean, and call out bs when I see it, I allowed my head to become swollen and I took it further. I like being the quiet,relaxed,and polite guy who can speak up when I need to and give a smart assed/funny remark when the occasion calls for it. Top notched post man, see what I have work on and now I just have to figure out where to start.:confused: :D
 

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This post hits a lot of good points. Your writing makes me question WHY I do a lot of things, and I think that's important. More people should read this kind of stuff, and read it good.
 
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