"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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childhood friend

AAAgent

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so i go to the bar in my neighborhood, and one of the servers there is my childhood friend. she is an hb9+. this is the 3rd time i've seen her and haven't seen her in about 6-7 years. after this time seeing her i've concluded she is in fact my friend. We weren't good friends but we did spend about 6-7 years playing a sport together. how should i go about this? i do not know if she is single or not nor have i talked to her in over 6+ years.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You:"Hey (her name) is that you? It's AAAgent"
Her: "OMG AAAgent?! It's been so long"
You:"Give me your number so we can catch up."
 

MisterMcGee

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haha yeah thats pretty much how you do it. I've been linking up with girls i havent seen in years by just doing that.
 
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