"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Chics who don't compliment

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So this date last night I complimented this girl 3 times (too many I know) But the last 2 were when I was a bit drunk.

When we met up I told her she looked good

When we were at my place I complimented her lips and hands..

I don't recall her giving me 1 compliment all night.

I mean the guy has to compliment his date at least once...but
is it normal for the girl not to compliment the guy?

I just got out of a LTR for about 3 years so guys bear with me here.

I'm regrouping my game and recovering some AFCness due to an LTR.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Go to hot or not if you want your ego boosting. fuks sake.
 
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Originally posted by dannyc
Go to hot or not if you want your ego boosting. fuks sake.
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WTF are you on about.. I don't want a f'ing ego boost I just want to know if it's normal chics don't compliment the guy... My ego was plenty boosted when we were making out on my sofa.
 
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use compliments sparingly. Dont say it unless you mean it.
If you're going to say it, phrase it better. Who wants to hear repeats of what other guys have said in the past?
 
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Screw the ettiquete.. Stop complimenting the girl. If she's a bit cold, diss her, subtly.

Like "I think there's some lip gloss on your teeth" etc.

Make her feel a bit insecure. It takes some guts and you must be willing to lose her (so don't be needy), but if all goes well and goes like it should normally, then she'll start complimenting you.


This doesn't work with girls below 8 though, those are too unpredictable. I wouldn't go for 'em.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by ScrewIt
use compliments sparingly. Dont say it unless you mean it.
If you're going to say it, phrase it better. Who wants to hear repeats of what other guys have said in the past?
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I did mean what I told... I said she has the softest lips of anyone I kissed (well it felt that way at the moment) .. and she said nobody has ever told her that before.... whatever
 
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That was a pretty good one. I steer clear of almost anything directly related to saying she looks good in the beginning, because all women know every guy says that. If it's true, she hears it even more often. Plus, she hears UGs being told they are beautiful by AFCs all the time. Better not to link yourself with that category.

Using something more original, even if corny, like soft lipps, interesting braclet, warm smile, how she makes you feel is better. I mean, I don't have a general recipe. You have to feel the situation out. Sometimes a disqualifer is in order. Sometimes being curious can show her you find something interesting about her. Sometimes just a direct statement about her attitude, ideas, dress is a good idea. The only general rule I have is to never give a general compliment on her physical appearance as genetics dictated. It has to be something she's specifically done to make it great that you point out.
 
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