The "starter marriage" phenomenon.
It's almost normal these days to get married because you're in a ****ty relationship and you're running out of things to make it interesting, but are co-dependent, so you figure getting married is the "next logical step".
I mean, all of her friends are getting married, right? She has a boyfriend, why not marry him?
Then the same thing happens with kids. Everyone else is having them...it's the next logical step.
Unlike smart people like you and I, the typical human being doesn't catch on to how bullsh!t social programming runs their lives until they've already gone through the "marriage and kids" part of the program.
At which point, they get divorced and finally start trying to live life on THEIR terms instead of on society's. But...OH SH!T, she can't do it now because she has a kid to take care of!
Then she hears the nonsense from all her girlfriends, "Oh honey, if he REALLY LOVES YOU, or IF HE'S REALLY WORTH IT, he'll be okay with you having a kid."
Which of course is bullsh!t. A high-status, not-socially-oppressed male is going to run like the wind from any woman who has a kid from another relationship. (unless she AND her kid are all-around awesome, which is extremely unlikely) But eventually she'll find someone stupid enough or desperate enough for 'tang to walk into that bear-trap.
They honestly don't exist to me. Women with kids don't even really register in my reality, unless they're up for a quick bang just to "satisfy needs". As soon as I find out that there's a kid involved, it's as if she said to me, "I'm too stupid to make important decisions like marriage for the right reasons".
And don't kid yourself, any woman with a child is looking for a surrogate daddy, even if she says she's "not trying to be serious right now". She will eventually try to get you to meet her kids, start wanting to involve them in activities, and then if you balk, you get the, "If you want me, you get the kids too, it's a package deal" line. Then there's the awkward break-up...if you're lucky and strong-willed enough to back out of the trap before it springs.
Dude, your age says 25. Date 21-year-olds. Anywhere between 24 and 30 and you're in the minefield of women with kids, women who want kids, and women who feel like you're an arsehole if you don't go out of your way to GIVE them kids and provide for them as well.
The sad truth is that in this day and age, most people (men AND women) are such low-quality sh!theads that they have no business breeding. It's tragic for the species.
Been around the world and found that only stupid people are breeding...
The cretins cloning and feeding...
There comes a time in "the game" when just a warm hole isn't enough. You have to start raising your standards for the girls you're messing with. The younger a girl is, the less "damaged" she is by this social conditioning crap, the less-far she's progressed through the routine, and the easier she is to save.
Either that, or game older women who managed to survive through the routine WITHOUT having kids.
Women in that 27-ish age-range who are still single...just have no concept of fun.
