So you get a chicks number.
You talk.
She contacts you again.
You go out.
You notice “tests” (which most dudes fail/ get pissy at because they aren’t truly confident and NEED someone to validate themselves to some chick which results in turn to them trying to “win” a “game” by “nexting” the chick like an emotional child would do at any sign of emotional discomfort.)
Most times when chicks “test” you especially if you’ve gotten their number and have went out it’s because they aren’t sure of you themselves right away. Especially if they barely know you. You can tell them all great things about yourself and put on an act but the “tests” are their self-defense mechanisms to see if what you say and how you act are truly congruent with what you’ve represented yourself as.
You need to be an adult about things, not get pissed off at the slightest perceived slight, upbeat and positive no matter what the outcome is, outcome independent, your own man, not negative about issues that may arise or you “perceive” to be a real issue, unaffected, and indifferent though understanding.
If some chick constantly plays games? You slowly fade away and never let them see you sweat.
You’d be amazed at how many chicks will turn around as you’ve “shown” by your actions without saying it or being negative about it that you don’t rely on others to make you the person you are whether they stick around or not.
It's up to YOU to be the man you claim to be.
Otherwise you WILL lose by “nexting” every chick every single time to the same MEN who are immune to chicks “tests”. Real talk.
You talk.
She contacts you again.
You go out.
You notice “tests” (which most dudes fail/ get pissy at because they aren’t truly confident and NEED someone to validate themselves to some chick which results in turn to them trying to “win” a “game” by “nexting” the chick like an emotional child would do at any sign of emotional discomfort.)
Most times when chicks “test” you especially if you’ve gotten their number and have went out it’s because they aren’t sure of you themselves right away. Especially if they barely know you. You can tell them all great things about yourself and put on an act but the “tests” are their self-defense mechanisms to see if what you say and how you act are truly congruent with what you’ve represented yourself as.
You need to be an adult about things, not get pissed off at the slightest perceived slight, upbeat and positive no matter what the outcome is, outcome independent, your own man, not negative about issues that may arise or you “perceive” to be a real issue, unaffected, and indifferent though understanding.
If some chick constantly plays games? You slowly fade away and never let them see you sweat.
You’d be amazed at how many chicks will turn around as you’ve “shown” by your actions without saying it or being negative about it that you don’t rely on others to make you the person you are whether they stick around or not.
It's up to YOU to be the man you claim to be.
Otherwise you WILL lose by “nexting” every chick every single time to the same MEN who are immune to chicks “tests”. Real talk.
