"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Chicks who prove you "wrong" when your gut instinct was/is right about them.

Naughty Ninja

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As far as chicks who prove you "wrong" by getting themselves another/ or a boyfriend (chump) A.S.A.P, announcing it all over Facebook etc. to throw it in your face when your gut instinct was right about them being a little slvt, sneak, liar etc. all along making you feel like sh1t in the end even though you were right..Dudes need to seriously get over that nonsense.

You simply cannot let trashy chicks treat you like that.

Don't make any chick your whole world. Just a part of it till you both possibly grow together and become one.

Most dudes second guess, resist sound common sense advice etc. EVEN when they themselves already suspect the chick they like is not good for them.

Why? Because most dudes even if they know in their gut feeling they are right are simply AFRAID to lose the chick and be proven "wrong" when the little slvt butt runs to the arms of a new chump boyfriend and broadcasts it to get back at the dude (you) who didn't just "believe" her.

Chicks like that dudes need to thank God some chump has that mess on his hands and be confident, secure with themselves and not needing some chick to "complete" them as if they're already a broken person or will be "broken" without them.

If you get the gut instinct a chick is a waste of time and you get sound common sense advice from here and or elsewhere in regards to going ghost and moving on, use your brain and drop the chick. Or stay being a little pvzzy whipped "DJ" b1tch boy.

Learn from past mistakes, grow and keep it moving.

Don't "worry" that even though you may be 110% right and you don't want to PROVE yourself right by her proving you "wrong" as she c0ck hops to her new "bestestest boyfriend" as soon as she's busted/caught etc. that you won't find better. Leave trash right where you found it.

And if you are going to ask about situations like these. Check out the Slvt-O-Meter thread. IF the chick you're seeing/dating has more of the signs...Well...You asked for it.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=201188&highlight=slvt-O-meter
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Danger said:
When I dumped my BPD ex, I actually told her that she had commitment problems, alongside abandonment problems. And that is why she went from being extremely cold and distant to on top of me and worried I would leave her.

She had never had a "label" before with any guy, claiming she didn't like them. Didn't bother me any, but she still felt the need to tell me.

So after I told her why she was broken, fvked up and not good enough for me, she went N-U-T-S. Fast forward a few months after she had finally stopped trying to contact me. Turns out she suddenly has a "boyfriend", labeled and everything on facebook. They are getting married this summer even. For the first time in her life she wants a label and to be married. Almost certainly due to my claiming she didn't want it and wa too mentally ill to handle it.

The lengths that women will go to prove a guy wrong is powered by a nuclear hamster. I can't help but feel sorry for the beta who believes her never having had a "boyfriend" means he found his princess who has barely been touched and that men were just blind to how awesome she is.

Yep! On specific threads most dudes who come with questions on chicks they're dating and or about to possibly date already have that gut feeling something is wrong. They get common sense sound advice and it's like they just don't want to believe it.

Most importantly dudes are afraid they are right about what they felt wrong in the first place and are scared sh1tless not only of "losing" the chick to it but that the chick will prove them "wrong" and a "looooser" as soon as she's c0cked hopped (if she hadn't already) to a new dude and announces it to everyone on FB etc. in order to get that "get back" on them for daring to not just "believe" her and "accept" her crap.

Like the dude was proven "wrong" about her even though he was right all along simply because the chick threw the pvzzy at another dude who wifed her up and believes her nonsense for some steady azz. She gets a boyfriend that she announces to the world while I'm single = I was the "loooser who was wrong". Not true in the least.

Hell my ex I dropped. Went NC period. Nothing. No texts, calls, emails etc. She tried contacting me via email I simply deleted them.

Found out she got married like a year later.

I was happy as hell it wasn't to me. No joke.

Same chick who her AND her friends were begging me to marry her. Not with her issues. Sorry!
 

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I listen to my gut feelings on chicks now... took me forever to finally learn my lesson.

Most are fit for pumpin and dumpin', rippin and tearin', and nothing more.
 
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