That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Troll trying to stir up controversy...AdiffrentTypeOfGirl said:well what about bruno mars and i have to say that i love bruno mars because of his music his voice it makes me happy yes i have cried when i went to a concert played his new single all day but that doesnt mean i have low self esteem or make me a slut of anything else....
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Yep same here, I really wish more people were like this.crossedup said:Really happy I got rid of facebook. Life is good.
Maybe one day these young women that I have been sadly acquainted with will one day learn that people aren't TV perfect. The x number of years I have felt inadequate as a man, and subsequently depressed that I have felt ill, is countless. I wouldn't know a positivity in life if it hit me.Mike32ct said:It's a very tough game for a lot of guys. That's why I mentioned in the 99% percent rejection thread how a 1 percent success rate or even less is common.
But despite being cynical, I'm still hopeful that I will eventually meet the right person. She might be one out of 400. That's ok.
Don't chase women or give a F what shallow shyte comes out if their mouths. The ones that truly matter and are truly worth it are rare.
If every female was exactly the same, as sure as I'm sitting here, I would be a 37 yo virgin.
I'm working during the day and having fun learning dance at night. If I meet that ultra rare special female that is attracted to me AND "gets me," great. If I don't, F it. I'll just live my life and score once in a while with Ms. Anamoly.
So take this stuff for what it is, but please don't worry about it too much.
LOLcrossedup said:Social media is just bullsh*t. Everyone on there pretends to be happy all the time to impress their friends and even strangers. They all want to be someone else and are clearly not comfortable being who they are. People would kill themselves if facebook was permanently deleted I swear it. Damn people don't know how to talk in real life and their 'friends' are fake idiot hoebags.
Really happy I got rid of facebook. Life is good. I have found life has improved drastically for me since I left celebrities behind. Yeah, I'm a little lost in those stupid new tv show and beyonce convos, but I don't give a sh*t. Let them talk about other people and surround yourself with cool real life people.
Never tried twitter, myspace, whatever other dumb sh*t they have out there. And wtf is instagram?
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.