"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Chicks who call themselves Princesses

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I love it it. My current girl is one. Trust me, if you know how to exploit it you have no idea of the power it will bring you.

I used to think the same thing as you. The key is to come from a position of power at ALL times while simultaneously make them love being your princess. Then it's so easy to take that away the second she starts acting like a bitc& and it will straight up mess with them. I'm talking Pavlov's dogs style.

IF you don't have the skill then straight up stay away from these girls. They can make your life hellish.

But.....
As I always tell her, "You are my princess, Baby. Now come over and please the KING."

edit: I really do love treating a worthy girl like a princess so long as she deserves it.
 

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Teflon...please elaborate on how you exploit it and use it to your advantage. Thanks man.
 

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Anyone else hate this with a passion? Any chick who thinks they are a ****ing princess should be ignored at all costs...any thoughts?
Even worse are the princesses who enjoy "fine dining..." :rolleyes:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Teflon_Mcgee said:
..I used to think the same thing as you. The key is to come from a position of power at ALL times while simultaneously make them love being your princess. Then it's so easy to take that away the second she starts acting like a bitc& and it will straight up mess with them. I'm talking Pavlov's dogs style...
True, but are they still truly a princess after the training?
 

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Teflon_Mcgee said:
But.....
As I always tell her, "You are my princess, Baby. Now come over and please the KING."

....That'd mean you were fvcking your daughter.


lol

Sorry just felt like messin with ya.
 

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Teflon_Mcgee said:
I love it it. My current girl is one. Trust me, if you know how to exploit it you have no idea of the power it will bring you.

I used to think the same thing as you. The key is to come from a position of power at ALL times while simultaneously make them love being your princess. Then it's so easy to take that away the second she starts acting like a bitc& and it will straight up mess with them. I'm talking Pavlov's dogs style.

IF you don't have the skill then straight up stay away from these girls. They can make your life hellish.

But.....
As I always tell her, "You are my princess, Baby. Now come over and please the KING."

edit: I really do love treating a worthy girl like a princess so long as she deserves it.
I'm in the same situation and use the same approach. I spoil my gf rotten, but it's done on the strict understanding that if she acts spoilt, it all stops. Works great.

But if they're the type that demands respect but does f*ck all to earn it, not interested.
 

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my ex was one of them, at heart she was a golddigger. never worked a day in her whole life. And when irony came to, she went to some halloween party in a freakin princess costume....she has so much growing up to do.
 

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I like girls like that cause i enjoy knockin them the fvck off their pedestal nothing like a good sparring match. Its fun until you get tired of them thinkin their **** dont stink.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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tryin 2 play said:
Teflon...please elaborate on how you exploit it and use it to your advantage. Thanks man.
The thing to remember is EVERY woman, from the most humble to the devout feminazi, has the desire-even if it's way deep down- to find Prince Charming and spend the rest of her days being wooed as his princess.

This is very prevalent in girls who already call themselves "princess" and show all the other signs (duh!). Other girls (more humble or down to earth or independent types) will learn to enjoy it after truly experiencing it.

It's just like a man (hopefully no aspiring DJs here) who finds a REALLY hot, freaky, expert piece of a$$ that he becomes addicted to because it's so good. This man will modify his behavior just to get one "last" lay. Expensive dinners, sweet talk, sit through ballets, all that sad AFC stuff.

Well, making a girl truly feel like a princess has the exact same effect. TO A POINT. If you do it from a position of supplication and constantly, she will begin to take it for granted. It will lose its "novelty" (for lack of a better word) and may even begin to abuse it or see how far she can push you just for kicks.

The key is to get her addicted to the feeling of being "your princess."
Make her feel warm and fuzzy.

Once she becomes addicted she will begin to crave it. She will do anything nessesary to feel the emotion of being your princess.

Of course as a princess she may *think* she's entitled to certain things. Like getting her way, ALWAYS. Afterall, a princess always gets her way. She will eventually try to use this.

This is what seperates the men from the boys. The second you let her get her way at any peril to you, you lose. You are no longer her prince charming and she is no longer your princess. She will no longer be addicted to those feelings.

She will realize she has a doormat and no longer needs to be a princess. She has POWER. And power trumps all.

BUT!!!....if she demands to have her way at your expense and you reprimand her in such a way that she realizes she is not acting like a princess, and is not going to be your princess (BTW, this needs to be implied. Don't just say it) then the fear of not experiencing the pleasure and emotions of being your princess will override her will to get her way. And it will also set a precedence so future confrontations will already have a direction to travel.

This works wanders if employed strategicly.

A few things I've discovered:

Begin treating her like a princess early. At the beginning of the relationship she will be less likely to try to take advantage of it. This means you'll have longer to ingrain those feelings before threatening them.

Frame control is VERY important. My actions as an AFC were nearly Identical as they are now yet my success has become limitless. One of my major changes was frame and state control.
Frame control with a princess is VITAL. You can either be the popper (as I was as an AFC) or the KING (as I am now.) Establish yourself as king early on and you will have no troubles with princesses.

If treating a girl like a princess is not your thing then don't do it. I *enjoy* it. My women enjoy it. Everybody's happy. It brings me success. It's very congruent with my style of seduction and personality. If the same isn't true for you then don't bother.

Be genuine. If you really want her to get addicted then you must be genuine in making her your princess. That's the one sacred thing with my girls. I'll joke about hating them, leaving them, abusing them, cheating on them, etc...but I will never joke about her being my princess. That would be sacrelige.
 

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The problem with princesses is that they b!tch at you when anything in their life is less than perfect; much like a real princess. I have had a couple millionaire's daughters, but now I am happier with girls who do not have a princess attitude. They seem to be satisfied with what life gives them and easier to please.
 

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Ah... If fathers only knew what they were creating by spoiling "daddy's little girl..."
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Ah... If fathers only knew what they were creating by spoiling "daddy's little girl..."

Francisco thinks he's a princess....Just joking...sheesh:)
 

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Mr_knowit_all said:
Francisco thinks he's a princess....Just joking...sheesh:)
I am a princess and all you want to see is :moon: but I need :flowers:

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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usually the jewish princesses bro
 

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usually the jewish princesses bro
actually I dated one. They are pretty bad if you don't know what you are doing. Become physically and mentally strong. Eventually, she will yield to you. If someone does date a jewish princess, than just stay strong. If you don't, than your life will go to hell.

She will ***** and complain though. It sucks @$$ though either way. At least the experiences that I had.

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