"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Chicks who actually go out of their way to be ****s...or maybe not

Latinoman

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If she is in her mid 20s to mid 30s...I would say she is interested judging by the exchange between you too.

If she is older...based on the exchange, I can tell you she might not that interested...but want to continue communication.

If she is younger than 23...only God knows.

By the way...

"Your mom taught you some interesting things.LOL. I'm putting that in my book. ;-)

Your personal email is good enough. But...if someday you want to feel safer when calling somebody...simply dial * 67 (or whatever) and then the number you are calling. Your number could not be tracked by anyone if you do that. The day you decide to call me...simply do that."
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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wunnaBsmooth

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Too true

joekerr31 said:
hot women are not getting hit on all the time.

thats a total fallacy.

id wager that an hb7 gets hit on more than an hb10.

most guys wont approach an hb10.


Back when I was a senior in high school, the hottest chic in our entire school did NOT go to our Senior Prom because everybody was afraid to ask her! She made every guy turn into an AFC!
This chic was not just HOT she was Super-model gorgeous!
I found out later that she spent quite a lot of time alone back in school..... Fortunately, someone finally had the ballz to ask her out. He's also the same one that's married to her now.........


So I believe the hotter they are, the less likely they're being approached because they scare the sh*t out of normal guys.
 

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I wonder if "pay to be able to respond" sites have plants emailing people to try to get 'en to fork over the Francs.
 

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Latinoman said:
If she is in her mid 20s to mid 30s...I would say she is interested judging by the exchange between you too.

If she is older...based on the exchange, I can tell you she might not that interested...but want to continue communication.

If she is younger than 23...only God knows.

By the way...

"Your mom taught you some interesting things.LOL. I'm putting that in my book. ;-)

Your personal email is good enough. But...if someday you want to feel safer when calling somebody...simply dial * 67 (or whatever) and then the number you are calling. Your number could not be tracked by anyone if you do that. The day you decide to call me...simply do that."
From what I've gathered so far from the email exchanges, I'd say she isn't interested based on a few criteria.

1) I told her if she was uncomfortable with the phone at first, that I'd make the exception and converse with her through instant messenger. She never took me up on that offer, which shows me a lack of interest. Instead she offered to continue conversing through email.

2) And not to nit pick or anything, but she still hasn't had any personality so far, no "hello's", "how are you's?", "bye's", no "smiley's", etc. She's just been DRY. And I really doubt in this case it has anything to with "women sucking at conversation" as Joekker suggested. Chick's who are interested in you usually don't do that. Most of the women I've ever conversed with through the internet have always been pleasant in their interaction. Also, if women were really that bad in their interactions with people than many wouldn't have jobs as secretaries, in customer service, jobs in hospitality, etc.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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And also let's face it, most of the time when a woman doesn't wanna talk on the phone, it's usually a lack of interest, because most women I've dealt with out there whether it was the internet or real life, have never had a problem with a phone number exchange or talking on the phone. So, like I was saying, based on what i've gathered thus far, I'm going to err on the "lack of interest" side.

Oh yeah, Latinoman, I believe she's in her mid 20's. I can't be exactly sure of that though as I'd have to check out her profile again to see, but I won't do that cause she can see that I took another look at her profile, and I don't want to float her ego more..plus I don't do that with chicks in general because that can also kill your game as I'm sure you know(they think "oh this guy is so into me, that he had to take another look at me"...your value to them goes down and you aren't seen as the prize.)
 

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Edger, Your email exchange with her was 'like awesome' . Not !
It was a convo between a male 120 IQ and a female 82.354 IQ.
Where would you plan to take her on a date? Baskin Robbins.!!
 
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