"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Chicks who actually go out of their way to be ****s...or maybe not

Latinoman

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If she is in her mid 20s to mid 30s...I would say she is interested judging by the exchange between you too.

If she is older...based on the exchange, I can tell you she might not that interested...but want to continue communication.

If she is younger than 23...only God knows.

By the way...

"Your mom taught you some interesting things.LOL. I'm putting that in my book. ;-)

Your personal email is good enough. But...if someday you want to feel safer when calling somebody...simply dial * 67 (or whatever) and then the number you are calling. Your number could not be tracked by anyone if you do that. The day you decide to call me...simply do that."
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Too true

joekerr31 said:
hot women are not getting hit on all the time.

thats a total fallacy.

id wager that an hb7 gets hit on more than an hb10.

most guys wont approach an hb10.


Back when I was a senior in high school, the hottest chic in our entire school did NOT go to our Senior Prom because everybody was afraid to ask her! She made every guy turn into an AFC!
This chic was not just HOT she was Super-model gorgeous!
I found out later that she spent quite a lot of time alone back in school..... Fortunately, someone finally had the ballz to ask her out. He's also the same one that's married to her now.........


So I believe the hotter they are, the less likely they're being approached because they scare the sh*t out of normal guys.
 

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I wonder if "pay to be able to respond" sites have plants emailing people to try to get 'en to fork over the Francs.
 

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Latinoman said:
If she is in her mid 20s to mid 30s...I would say she is interested judging by the exchange between you too.

If she is older...based on the exchange, I can tell you she might not that interested...but want to continue communication.

If she is younger than 23...only God knows.

By the way...

"Your mom taught you some interesting things.LOL. I'm putting that in my book. ;-)

Your personal email is good enough. But...if someday you want to feel safer when calling somebody...simply dial * 67 (or whatever) and then the number you are calling. Your number could not be tracked by anyone if you do that. The day you decide to call me...simply do that."
From what I've gathered so far from the email exchanges, I'd say she isn't interested based on a few criteria.

1) I told her if she was uncomfortable with the phone at first, that I'd make the exception and converse with her through instant messenger. She never took me up on that offer, which shows me a lack of interest. Instead she offered to continue conversing through email.

2) And not to nit pick or anything, but she still hasn't had any personality so far, no "hello's", "how are you's?", "bye's", no "smiley's", etc. She's just been DRY. And I really doubt in this case it has anything to with "women sucking at conversation" as Joekker suggested. Chick's who are interested in you usually don't do that. Most of the women I've ever conversed with through the internet have always been pleasant in their interaction. Also, if women were really that bad in their interactions with people than many wouldn't have jobs as secretaries, in customer service, jobs in hospitality, etc.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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And also let's face it, most of the time when a woman doesn't wanna talk on the phone, it's usually a lack of interest, because most women I've dealt with out there whether it was the internet or real life, have never had a problem with a phone number exchange or talking on the phone. So, like I was saying, based on what i've gathered thus far, I'm going to err on the "lack of interest" side.

Oh yeah, Latinoman, I believe she's in her mid 20's. I can't be exactly sure of that though as I'd have to check out her profile again to see, but I won't do that cause she can see that I took another look at her profile, and I don't want to float her ego more..plus I don't do that with chicks in general because that can also kill your game as I'm sure you know(they think "oh this guy is so into me, that he had to take another look at me"...your value to them goes down and you aren't seen as the prize.)
 

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Edger, Your email exchange with her was 'like awesome' . Not !
It was a convo between a male 120 IQ and a female 82.354 IQ.
Where would you plan to take her on a date? Baskin Robbins.!!
 
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