"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Chicks that Turned You Down in the Past.

SharinganUser

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I am wondering if anyone has ever contacted a woman that they were attracted to before they became a DJ and had any success with them. I sometimes wonder that if I had the oppertunity now, could I fvck them?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The Deacon

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If they think you're hot now, yeah, you can get some action from them.
 

Jitterbug

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Well, after I first learned about PUA & DJ, and started reading some materials, I was out trying some #-closing tactics. The very first girl whom I tried it on turned me down flat. I was just practicing so I didn't think much of that. I met her again a long time after that event, and, armed with better knowledge and experience, I got her number, dated her, made out with her and I'm heading over to her place tomorrow night. ;)
 

SharinganUser

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Ok, So really, I just gotta keep my weight down. Get back in shape. I am way more comfortable arround attractive women than I was even six months ago. I might not even meet them again but who knows what next summer will bring.

The thing is that the girls (well some of them) never really rejected me in the first place and the one that did was really nice about it. I rejected myself before I even had the chance to be shut down. I think, that if the oppertunity comes up, I can do it (by *it, I mean 'them').
 

War Against Betaism

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Yeah it's worked for me. There's this one really attractive girl who now considers me her bestfriend, has guys going up to her and complimenting her all the time. One guy was really digging her, and straight up told her that he loved her, but she rejected him. I would love to game this girl, but it was after I moved when I learned all this DJ sh1t and now I live in a different country.

Women will recognize the fact that you changed and will squash the memories they had of you being an AFC.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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