"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Chicks that don't talk?

The_Guy

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Hey you guys, I doubt I'm the only person who's experienced this, but what do you do with girls that REALLY don't talk? As in, they're constantly giving short answers and not interested in talking about themselves. I find that sometimes I'll be completely dominating the conversation and talking 2 times as much and only listening half the time! I'll flat out ask them questions about themselves and I get really plain and short answers. I don't have conversating problems, but they make it impossible to build off their answers!

How do you guys approach this situation?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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joverby

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She is either legitimately very shy or just not interested.

The way to tell the difference is wait and see if she initiates contact with you, if she does, great. If not, not great.

But just keep pursuing until the usual, she says not to or gives you common sense signs that she doesn't like you like that.

But some chicks really are just shy, I met a really shy one before. But she would always initiate.
 

gaspipe

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Its all in the body language. If you are keen at picking up signs of attraction then you will know almost immediately if a girls interested regardless of whether shes shy or not. Girls do certain things subconsiously when they see or are in the presence of a guy they are attracted to.
 

women haze

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oooh man I remember having a date like that. It was like pulling teeth..
it's like what people say here either she is shy or not interested.

Worst thing is I am not i repeat not the initiator of a conversation....
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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