"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Chicks that don't talk?

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The_Guy

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Hey you guys, I doubt I'm the only person who's experienced this, but what do you do with girls that REALLY don't talk? As in, they're constantly giving short answers and not interested in talking about themselves. I find that sometimes I'll be completely dominating the conversation and talking 2 times as much and only listening half the time! I'll flat out ask them questions about themselves and I get really plain and short answers. I don't have conversating problems, but they make it impossible to build off their answers!

How do you guys approach this situation?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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joverby

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She is either legitimately very shy or just not interested.

The way to tell the difference is wait and see if she initiates contact with you, if she does, great. If not, not great.

But just keep pursuing until the usual, she says not to or gives you common sense signs that she doesn't like you like that.

But some chicks really are just shy, I met a really shy one before. But she would always initiate.
 
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gaspipe

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Its all in the body language. If you are keen at picking up signs of attraction then you will know almost immediately if a girls interested regardless of whether shes shy or not. Girls do certain things subconsiously when they see or are in the presence of a guy they are attracted to.
 
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women haze

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oooh man I remember having a date like that. It was like pulling teeth..
it's like what people say here either she is shy or not interested.

Worst thing is I am not i repeat not the initiator of a conversation....
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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