Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Chicks "strengths" are a matter of location

djjizzyjeff

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When you think a certain chick is unattainable , out of your league etc. think of that same chick if she were placed on an island somewhere with just the two of you and needed you for help or in some remote town where you were the nearest neighbor.

Think of that same chick being placed in a foreign land where there are much better looking chicks for you to choose from who are more intelligent to boot.

IMO A lot of chicks entitlement, AWing and princess mentality comes from the vast amount of options she has in her location. Same with dudes to be honest.

If the both of you were stuck in some remote land or in an area where there was much better options than yourself or the chick all the nonsense would be dropped.

The point being is never pedestalize chicks. If each and every one of them were placed in a certain situation where they had no other options but you their laundry list of "requirements" would disappear and you'd see the chick decide she needed you.

As for the reality of things..Just work on yourselves to be the best you can be and know it's location and her options that give her "power" so don't sweat it.

If you took the 20 best looking chicks you'd ever known in life and had each one at a time in a place where only the two of you were the only people there EACH AND EVERY ONE OF THEM would be easily yours no matter what race, height, size, religion etc you are.

Point being. Don't sweat the nonsense as it really is.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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djjizzyjeff

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Fruitbat said:
So all I need to do is kidnap the 20 best looking chicks I know and take them to a remote island?

I am struggling to see the point here. You are saying basically don't worry if you don't get hot chicks, as if you were the last man alive they would be banging you.

Great

I'm saying don't sweat the nonsense. You cannot control anyone but if you think about it no chick is "better" than you.

Look at how all humans for the most part act when placed in different locations/situations.

You take dudes who are straight put them in prison for life they become homos or for a long stretch "gay for the stay".

You take chicks and do the same they become lesbos for the stay.

You take a westernized chick and put her in a country where that sh1t doesn't fly and there are much better options she will shape up.

And so on.

The only thing you can really control is you. The point is again. IF you WERE to have any one of the hottest chicks you ever knew placed in a situation where it were just the two of you. She wouldn't flake, not call back, not text etc.

Just a thought to think about next time some chick acts like a clown.
 
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