"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Chicks asking to dance - Whats should i do?

Wild_Dreamz

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well,

i read here that man should lead the woman.

often when i go to clubs i stand near the dance floor and often chicks came to ask me to dance or sometimes take my hand and elad me to dance floor.


so here is the question :

Should i just go and dance? or i just deny her request?

regards,
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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KarmaSutra

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This is a perfect opportunity to playfully tease her. If you're led onto the dance floor by her you go and dance with her. One song only. Then you turn to leave and say something coy such as: " You want another dance it'll cost you." Doesn't matter what it is; a peck on the cheek, a rum runner, whatever. The primary lesson is that it will COST her something to enjoy time with you.
 

Hero

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Just go dance with her and have fun; and it's a great cardio workout too.
 

Desdinova

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Simple, you go and dance. The woman is looking for a guy to have fun with, and there's usually very few of them on the dance floor. If you show them that you're willing to have fun with them, they will respond positively to you.

NEVER worry about looking like an idiot on the dance floor when you've got the balls to get out there, unlike all the other guys on the sidelines trying to look cool by sitting on their ass and passing up opportunities.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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How would one go about denying a woman who takes your hand and leads you to the dancefloor? :confused: Unless she's a Wookie, go with it and enjoy yourself.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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SayWord?

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stand against a wall and let her twerk the **** out of you
 

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You definitely want to out and dance.

As someone pointed out, make it cost for her after a dance or two. Dance floors are a great way to game, in my opinion. It works very very well for me.

Highly encourage it.
 
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