Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Chicks aren't Calling or Texting Back ? ? ?

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Todd Preston said:
WTF is this BS.

I pick up women...and get their phone numbers...and i don't twist their arms for them...i ask causally with the suggestion of future Meetup...nothing serious or Strong Come on.

But nothing...no response or call back.

This chit pizzes me off...!

I think i will text this idiots and let them know how immature they are....with a final note that i will be deleting their numbers...

Anyone EVER tell a woman off after first meeting under similar circumstances?

You sound like you don't know what to do. You must really suck with women son.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yeah...i really do suck...(sigh) Can you help me Master?

"Oh Please...tell us what to do...Old Master!...Can i shine your shoes or pick up your Dry-cleaning?"

LOL...YOU old dudes are funny!

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How's it goin...working the Senior Circuit?



Fred_Scuttle said:
You sound like you don't know what to do. You must really suck with women son.
 

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Victory Unlimited bringing the goods as usual....
 

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Todd, you need to KINO these girls man. That's pretty much your only hope with 5 minutes of time.

If they are interested in you they will let you touch them and if there is chemistry there she will feel it and so will you when you touch her. Make sure to LOOK her in her eyes and smile while you do it.

If she is not interested.. well you might just get slapped but hey at least you know where you stand. If you are feeling ballsy ask for her number too.
 

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Todd Preston said:
Yeah...i really do suck...(sigh) Can you help me Master?

"Oh Please...tell us what to do...Old Master!...Can i shine your shoes or pick up your Dry-cleaning?"

LOL...YOU old dudes are funny!

:wave:

How's it goin...working the Senior Circuit?
you are the one writing that women wont call you or text you back
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Thanks Man....i was using heavy eyecontact...(u know...the kind that says i wanna fvck u)....but perhaps a little touching is in order.

Although in 5 mins....not sure what i can get in.

Maybe a little peck on the cheek?



ohnoes said:
Todd, you need to KINO these girls man. That's pretty much your only hope with 5 minutes of time.

If they are interested in you they will let you touch them and if there is chemistry there she will feel it and so will you when you touch her. Make sure to LOOK her in her eyes and smile while you do it.

If she is not interested.. well you might just get slapped but hey at least you know where you stand. If you are feeling ballsy ask for her number too.
 

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I know it's tough for the ego to stomach, but try not to over think these things. If a woman is really into to you, minor offenses like errors in tone, body language, insufficient kino (or even too much kino) don't matter... At least not to the point where a woman would completely disregard or ignore you. Flakes will be flakes.

As a previous poster stated, perhaps you should place more emphasis on leaving a strong impression during the initial meeting and number close. If they still flake, they've probably done you a favor.
 
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Todd Preston said:
Thanks Man....i was using heavy eyecontact...(u know...the kind that says i wanna fvck u)....but perhaps a little touching is in order.

Although in 5 mins....not sure what i can get in.

Maybe a little peck on the cheek?
Keep up the eye contact that is great. The big question though is she looking at you like she wants to fµck you?

If she is giving you that lustful look you have already won. I'd start off touching the shoulders or arms first. She how she responds to that before going in for a peck. You can get away with a lot when they are really feeling you, but what you go for should be proportional to her interest level. Get her number and setup a date right then and there, and if you both have the time invite her to hangout with you that afternoon.

Remember to have FUN and be playful in these interactions regardless of her interest level. You want to make her FEEL a positive vibe from you whether that's through humor, touch, or whatever because this puts her at ease and generates the necessary rapport. You should feel this vibe too because if she FEELS it and you FEEL it then there is chemistry.
 
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