"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Chicks are chicks, don't get hung up over one chick

rascal99v

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So many men get hung up over one chick and feel that she is "the only one" and feel they can't live without her. You need to stop thinking that way, because she is not the only one. There are better women to be had who will do exactly what you want her to do.

Each girl who likes you will be doing the same things for you. You will get lots of sex, have good times, she will do nice things for you, and be highly attracted to you. That's how it is for every chick who is into to you. What this one is doing, is no different that what your last one was doing. There is no reason to get hung up over one chick.

I read a thread where this guy's girlfriend lost interest and he wanted her back. She isn't doing the things you want her to do. Why would you want a girl back who isn't going to give you what you want? Another chick will do the same exact things for you, maybe even better without the drama.

I've know guys who cried after they lost a woman. They wasted a lot of time trying to get her back or stayed depressed thinking they couldn't get anyone better. After some time passed, they met a new chick and she was doing the same things as their last one was doing. They forgot about the last one and were getting what they wanted out of the new one.

So, thinking their ex was the only one for them is stupid, considering all the other women out there who will do the same.

If you're not getting what you want from these chicks, you should get a new one. That includes girlfriends who hang out with orbiters, disrespect you, and make excuses for sex and to hang out. There is no excuse for putting up with any of that, but some guys will do that only out of fear.

Chicks are chicks, as long as you're getting laid and getting what you want out of her, that's all you should care about. Each chick who is into you will do that for you, they are no different.

Being hung up over a chick who disrespects you, doesn't want to give you sex, wants to be with another man is stupid. Another girl with high interest will do the things you want her to do for you. That's all you should care about with these chicks.

Start getting what you want from these chicks instead of wanting a chick who won't do the things you want her to. :up:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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SeymourCake

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I think it stems from mother issues but great post.
 

thunder_god

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Great post. Now if only I could meet the next girl some time in the near future that would be great, but at least I am trying to put myself out there a lot more than in the past.
 
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