“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Chicks and Warhammer 40,000

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So I bring this chick back to my place after an evening out. She demands to see my room. Apparently she can tell what a man is like from the state of his room. How could I refuse?

There were a couple of dumbells left out, the abdo board and my paint brushes and post left on the table...next to my entire Warhammer 40,000 army. Sh1t! She's gonna think I'm a geek and run. :eek:

"Wow! Did you paint those?"
"Er...yup, didn't take very long." (they took months, but she doesn't know)
She then tells me that her brother used to play and has a bucket load of stuff up in their loft.

We had some great sex that night and on the next date she brought round a box full of really old 40K miniatures for me.

Sadly I totally ballsed things up with her later...
but I sold the models I didn't want on ebay for a pretty penny.

Moral of the story: Even if you're a geek, it doesn't hurt to display your talents if you are very good

http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b135/AdamsMiniatures/Deathwing Army/dwtermiesquad22.jpg
Pic for anyone interested ;)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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those are very well painted! Practicly as good as the ones displayed in the shop window that sells those things!
 

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damn dude, if you painted those, I bow to you, those damn things are so hard to paint it's not fvcking funny!

And I agree with this, because i am a band nerd, and I leave my music sitting out and my trumpet sitting out, chicks love artsie guys!
 

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I'd play the Imperial Guard if they didn't have so many damned models to paint.

But chicks like artistic talent.
(I also paint and draw btw). I've noticed that ever since I didn't do any proper art for a while I never talked about it and so chicks weren't as attracted to me.

Once I finish my current 40K army (Necrons) I'll get back into art.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Nice rocket launcher and minigun conversions. Very nicely painted, your use of highlights/inking is definitely wicked.

I used to be into Warhammer, I was still thinking of making *scenic* models/scenery, but never got around to it. The normal game is just too irritating if you have a bad dice rolling day.
 
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Dude, you're in Europe where Warhammer is mega popular.

If I brought my GF home and she saw my 1,500 point Necron army, you could bet your sweet ass her panties are coming back up mighty fast!:(

That being said, you're models are amazing man. You should enter competitions. Seriously though, f terminator squads. ;)

At least you don't play Blood Angels....:down:
 

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I feel so out of the loop. WTF is warhammer 40000? Like starcraft but not on a computer?
 
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I tried getting into Warhammer with a friend a couple of years back. It didn't work too well since neither of us had the funds to buy all the damn things.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by italostud
I feel so out of the loop. WTF is warhammer 40000? Like starcraft but not on a computer?
www.games-workshop.com

It is miniature wargaming, you assemble and paint the miniatures then have tabletop battles on a dice based system.

And yeah I agree, they think you are artistic and seem fascinated in it. Even if you don't paint anywhere near as well as that (which is very good). Hell a few have even wanted intro games with me to see how it works.
 

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haha, my little brother does that kinda stuff. Its true though, not all girls are turned off by geeky stuff. I know a few that think a streak of geekiness is kinda cool.
 

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Wow, Europe must be full of nerds or something. In Australia, if a chick saw you do that, she'd be outta there in a flash! It's got an even worse rep than roleplaying and computer games.
 

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That's awesome. I never played or anything. Actually the only nerd things I do are, build and fix computers, and RPG's.

But that paint job is awesome.
 

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It's all about being comfortable and happy with yourself. Who cares if you play a miniature table top game? It's something you enjoy so theres no reason to hide it. Well done.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I think because I was confident about it, it wasn't a problem.

Chicks that accept or like your geekiness are the right kinda chicks in my opinion. They're a lot more open minded and generally...easier to get along with.
 

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Originally posted by diplomatic_lies
Wow, Europe must be full of nerds or something. In Australia, if a chick saw you do that, she'd be outta there in a flash! It's got an even worse rep than roleplaying and computer games.
Europe does have a hell of a lot of Warhammer players, but I am in Australia and have only ever got positive responses from it in person. When you explain it over the net to random people, they may start calling you geeky, but show them the actual painted models and they go gagas. Are you just theorising or have you actually tried? Sounds like the former to me.

It's all about being comfortable and happy with yourself. Who cares if you play a miniature table top game? It's something you enjoy so theres no reason to hide it. Well done
Thats it! Great statement. No one should start the hobby just to try to look artistic, and no one should hold off if they enjoy it just because they think it is 'geeky'. Do what you enjoy doing, be happy and comfortable with it, and if they dont like it then stuff em, there are others who either do or won't care either way. Hell there are even chicks who collect warhammer.

If you come across a girl who runs just because of your hobby, they are too shallow and not worth the time in the first place so its good to get rid of them early.
 

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I have encountered a lot of chicks who are 'against' hobbies, thinking their 'sad'.

Ironically, these chicks did not have any hobbies, much of a personality and beyond going to work, going clubbing, throwing up and watching Big Brother, they did nothing.
No sport, no interests, zip zilch.

If a chick likes that you have a hobby or interest, this is because she has hobbies and interests, meaning that she too is 'interesting' and not a complete 'Tard.
 
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