Hello everyone, well summer school has started. There is this one chick, I been analyzing. She seem quite smart, and quite a quiet type. I find her kind of attractive and all. But I'm not looking for a girl, since I already have a girlfriend. I just want to have someone NEW that is REALLY smart to talk to in my class. Well, today is day 3 since summer school started. I sat next to her, had a little conversation going on. Right when I about to ask her for a #, and ScreeName. The teacher said break time was over. So right when the bell rang, I asked her do she chat online she said you mean AOL? I said yeah, (we were walking and talking by the way) she said yeah, i asked "how about you give me your screename so we can chat it up." which totally was the weakest line ever, screwed myself over right there. Then she responded back with a "tomorrow" and kept walking. I got rejected pretty much right? Hmm, she seem like playing a little "play hard to get" How should i respond back tomorrow fellas?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Chick, with high standards. Kind of gotten rejected. Look Inside.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
aftershock
Master Don Juan
Sit somewhere else.
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
Haha, yes dude can't you take the hint?
Would you have gotten the message if she'd thrown a chair at you and screamed "Get the hell away from me!!!" I wonder!
Craig Reeves
Master Don Juan
*sigh*
It seems that a lot of you guys on this forum find it much easier to assume that a girl DOESN'T like you than the other way around.
Some of you guys seriously need a certain something in your life called OPTIMISIM.
She said "tommorrow" so I'd just ask again tommorrow. If she says "no" then who the heck cares?
It seems that a lot of you guys on this forum find it much easier to assume that a girl DOESN'T like you than the other way around.
Some of you guys seriously need a certain something in your life called OPTIMISIM.
She said "tommorrow" so I'd just ask again tommorrow. If she says "no" then who the heck cares?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
MindOverMatter
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It takes like 5-10 seconds to write down her screen name. If she isn't willing to spend 5-10 seconds to let the guy get to know her better, she obviously isn't interested in letting him get to know her better.
If she said "hey can i give it to you tommorow, im in a really bad rush so i dont miss an appointment, so sorry" I'd agree with you. But saying "tommorow" and walking off is a very disrespectful way to end a conversation. That's not how you talk to a person you're interested in meeting, that's how you talk to a lackey or an inferior. He should have put the b!tch in her place as soon as she told him this instead of taking it in the a$$ and letting her walk away.
Him going up to her and asking her for her AIM again after she dismissed him so disrespectfully is sucker behaviour, and will turn the girl off even more. The best thing for him to do is approach another girl in that class and game her, instead of wasting his time on this sl*t.
my 2c
Hound_of_Love
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I tend to agree with this. Too many people seem to want to 'next' every girl who doesn't immediately fall down and worship. What about a bit of challenge? That's where you really get to test yourself.
You can get self-confidence from flitting from girl to girl until one accepts you I guess. How much more can you get from knowing that, with a little work, you can get almost any girl?
There's a difference in persistance with the benifit that at the end its gonna pay off because maybe the girl likes you because she's shown you that she does and all that good stuff and just for whatever reason everything slowed down.
You can persist there.
But if you persist on a matter that never was gonna go anywhere, what's the point? you'll just be a crazy guy who can't take a hint.
Hound_of_Love
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Indeed. Moderation is the key. There is such a thing as knowing when to quit.
Nightspark
Senior Don Juan
Wow she left you an opening right there to catch her out!
Now taht wouldve been useful to throw in a playful... "how rude of a person you are" or something a long the lines of that.... maybe a little ****y grin and wave back when she wouldve turned around to give you a dirty look.... "WELL SEE YOU 2morro! Snob!"
Anways back to the point at hand...
i think she, thinks she's the queen of the world to walk away like that. You're going to have to use your charm and wit to get her to finally crack down into a heap and then she'll become the peasant she has always been...
Godspeed
-Nightspark
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
yea a few ppl here are **** heads. they cant take no for an answer form a gal. If the gal says no, answer can always change if u show u r interested in her (dont be desparate though). give some time and dont force the issue and u'll win.
Today she didn't sit in the same seat as yesterday (which is next to me) and sat somewhere else. Haha, so I just dont even bother try talking to her anymore. Since it's summer school, and my grade is on the line here. Got to stay focus and everything.