"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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chick with BF keeps fonin me

onyx

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yeh i first met this chick about 9 months ago, she is 1 of my best friends friend. I've seen her twice over the last 9 months until recently, and the last 2-3 weeks shes been fonin me late at night for a few hours at a time.(I know, I know too long)

The thing is she as a boyfriend and though I like this chick, I'm thinking I should completely ignore her. Though she as told her friends and mentioned to me she wish she never got back with her boyfriend after he cheated on her, but says she can't leave him because they've been together for 3-4 years, and admits shes not happy, but she has to stay with him because shes goin on holiday with him within the next month.

I've asked her why she keep foning me and she says its because i'm funny and make her laugh. She also constantly asks me how many girls i've been with, but i never tell her saying i don't know.

We even had a argument about it the other day she said I was sleeping around and accused me of been a liar, and i said it was none of her business things got heated, then she foned me up afterwards and to chat. But instead of talking on the fone for a few hours, I cut it off after less than 30 minutes, and she was begging me not to go and to talk to me.

My gut is telling me to just ignore her, since she as a boyfriend any way, but shes txting me and foning me regulary, I don't get want she wants really, we just constantly flirt.

What's your thoughts on this..I think I know the answer any way. But its going to be arkward because I will see her around alot any way now, and shes really good mates with my best mate.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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pressure0354

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Here it is mate

stop answering all of her phone calls. she has a boyfriend right? When it comes down to it, I really think she just wants attention or a shoulder to cry on.

Either way, you can be her friend but give up on the "hope of romance" coming from this or you will be wasting your time.

PS My sis(american) is getting married to an australian from melbourne.
 

BlackJackal

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Whip it out for her and see what happens. Easiest way to cut through the bull****.:D
 
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