Dimebag_Darrell
Banned
Ok, so theres another girl who i've been working on for a while and man it has had its ups and downs and this girl is real confusing. well today in the morning I was talkin to her and she told me something that has me questioning whether I've been LJBF'ed.
Basically she went on with something like
"All the people that I talk to I don't hang out with, but all the people I hang out with, I dont talk to them much."
And although this applies for me and I seriously thought this was just me who was like this. I talk to everyone at school and basically start a party in every class I'm in but I never hang out with those kids. I dont know why. I keep my real world friends seperate from schoolmates....
back to the subject, I immediately wondered if this was a sign of the LJBF and maybe I F*cked up but I had to think quick and hopefully I redeemed myself by emphasizing that I was truly the same way and that i was amazed that other ppl are the same way....and then she opened up about how she hangs out with all her friends which are mainly dudes but she can't relate to them or something and about how she's ignored her BF for days because he's a loser and i said I totally understood her way of thinking because it truly is how I feel but man.
Yeah, I know you guys see me posting sh*t that supposedly I can fix, yeah and that stuff that is obvious to me but when it comes to this type of situation I really dont know how to go about it....Like the summer is comin up and I really wanna see this girl again in the summer but there's something that I need to do to show her that her social circle is full of AFCs and that I'm a better fit..i don't know, but I really connect with this girl on a crazy level and I never had before with a girl. I actually respect this chick for who she is, I just don't wanna f*ck anything up..any advice on hwo to approach thhis would be appreciated.
Its really crazy how I havent posted about her throughout the months but her value in my eyes has slowly increased over all the other girls I've been trying to get with...i mean, I am still messing with other girls but this is the type of girl I'd settle down with for a while.....just a while.
but yeah to summarize my problem so far..I went from not even noticing this girl becuase my preference of girls are the ones everyone else wants..the preppy girls, to basically being very attracted to this girl. And well, I've progressively been doing KINO, the Negs, and I've definately without a doubt built comfort with her and a lot of rapport. Hell she tells me her whole life story every day in class. And its funny how at the beginning of us seeing each other we wont say sh*t to each other for like 30 minutes and when the tension is built I release it a little and we connect well. Only problem is that she has some BF dude and hangs out with a gnag of obvious AFCs because she's always claiming that these guys always want her over and they wanna be with her but she doesnt let em or soemthing...I dunno, she's weird. Yeah, and don't think I've been going AFC on her either. I literally push her ass around. I grab her CD player and pencils and steal her bracelets right off of her wrists and she lets me. I tell her that she's not so cool and I tell her her truths and she always smiles..she loves this sh*t..only thing is I can't ever isolate her. I almost did once. She was gonna take me to lunch but when we met up it started raining and her car was in the shop and she had some other dude following her and she was gonna walk in the rain to the restaurant and I was like "FUUUUUUK THAT!!"
damn, sorry if I dragged this out too far but damn I feel a real sense of urgency because its the end of the year and I need to really execute and I don't know exactly how to approach this correctly except for maybe telling her that I'm interested in her for more than just talk, but I dont wanna creep her out...overall i got the choice of telling her how I feel about her and if she wants to try at it, we can and if not I'll move on. Or I can do nothing about it...or maybe someone out there in the forums with some constructive criticism can help good ol' Dime out! PLEASE!!! lol
Basically she went on with something like
"All the people that I talk to I don't hang out with, but all the people I hang out with, I dont talk to them much."
And although this applies for me and I seriously thought this was just me who was like this. I talk to everyone at school and basically start a party in every class I'm in but I never hang out with those kids. I dont know why. I keep my real world friends seperate from schoolmates....
back to the subject, I immediately wondered if this was a sign of the LJBF and maybe I F*cked up but I had to think quick and hopefully I redeemed myself by emphasizing that I was truly the same way and that i was amazed that other ppl are the same way....and then she opened up about how she hangs out with all her friends which are mainly dudes but she can't relate to them or something and about how she's ignored her BF for days because he's a loser and i said I totally understood her way of thinking because it truly is how I feel but man.
Yeah, I know you guys see me posting sh*t that supposedly I can fix, yeah and that stuff that is obvious to me but when it comes to this type of situation I really dont know how to go about it....Like the summer is comin up and I really wanna see this girl again in the summer but there's something that I need to do to show her that her social circle is full of AFCs and that I'm a better fit..i don't know, but I really connect with this girl on a crazy level and I never had before with a girl. I actually respect this chick for who she is, I just don't wanna f*ck anything up..any advice on hwo to approach thhis would be appreciated.
Its really crazy how I havent posted about her throughout the months but her value in my eyes has slowly increased over all the other girls I've been trying to get with...i mean, I am still messing with other girls but this is the type of girl I'd settle down with for a while.....just a while.
but yeah to summarize my problem so far..I went from not even noticing this girl becuase my preference of girls are the ones everyone else wants..the preppy girls, to basically being very attracted to this girl. And well, I've progressively been doing KINO, the Negs, and I've definately without a doubt built comfort with her and a lot of rapport. Hell she tells me her whole life story every day in class. And its funny how at the beginning of us seeing each other we wont say sh*t to each other for like 30 minutes and when the tension is built I release it a little and we connect well. Only problem is that she has some BF dude and hangs out with a gnag of obvious AFCs because she's always claiming that these guys always want her over and they wanna be with her but she doesnt let em or soemthing...I dunno, she's weird. Yeah, and don't think I've been going AFC on her either. I literally push her ass around. I grab her CD player and pencils and steal her bracelets right off of her wrists and she lets me. I tell her that she's not so cool and I tell her her truths and she always smiles..she loves this sh*t..only thing is I can't ever isolate her. I almost did once. She was gonna take me to lunch but when we met up it started raining and her car was in the shop and she had some other dude following her and she was gonna walk in the rain to the restaurant and I was like "FUUUUUUK THAT!!"
damn, sorry if I dragged this out too far but damn I feel a real sense of urgency because its the end of the year and I need to really execute and I don't know exactly how to approach this correctly except for maybe telling her that I'm interested in her for more than just talk, but I dont wanna creep her out...overall i got the choice of telling her how I feel about her and if she wants to try at it, we can and if not I'll move on. Or I can do nothing about it...or maybe someone out there in the forums with some constructive criticism can help good ol' Dime out! PLEASE!!! lol