"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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chick who "didn't really get home last night"

thedeparted

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I played email tag with this one for awhile, until she asked me what I liked to do on the weekends and instead of ignoring it for the umpteenth time I said "go out with hot women". So then she says she's jealous and asks why we never went out and I said, "Did you ever ASK me out?" at which point, of course, she does. Then, in a later email, she says, "I never really got home last night..." (a weekday)

So, what is that supposed to mean? Is she trying to hint that she went home with some guy on a Tuesday night? Maybe to make me jealous? The only thing it really made me think is that she's a floozy.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Luveno

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Bingo!

She's trying to display her worth to you. By saying that she went to another man's place for sex, she is implying that she is of high value and that other men want to screw her.

Of course, this is ridiculous logic because even fat chicks end up getting laid: I mean, look how many ugly kids there are!!! All it makes her look like is a s|ut.

Anyway, if what she says is true she sounds like she's easy and would be a good pump and dump, provided she's good-looking.

Is she good-looking, or is she too plain or ugly to get it on with?
 

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Who cares. Don't bite either way. Simply ignore it and pretend it never happened. If she's a floozy, then treat her as one and have her as one of your FB's.

Seriously, just forget she ever said it, you'll drive yourself crazy trying to figure out women when you don't need to.
 

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Luveno said:
Is she good-looking, or is she too plain or ugly to get it on with?
If she was ugly, we wouldn't even be having this conversation? Do you sit and analyze situations over ugly women? I didn't think so, why would he?
 

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Ha ha, yeah, I wouldn't game an ugly chick, that's like pouring gasoline on your burning house when you really need a hose full of cold water.

This one is hot but kind of crazy, and that's what I'm qualifying her on. I didn't bite, of course. Just wondering if I read that remark right. Seems my woman-ese is improving ;-)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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