"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Chick was triple booked

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Met this girl, she approached me. She's a model / actress and approached me when I was in a meeting with some stylists going over a shoot.

She kept smiling at me and trying to get my attention. I gave some to her. Made plans and she insisted on meeting in the day (red flag...but I assumed maybe because of work)

Meet up with her on day of and she tells me she only has an hour. I basically told her 'wow, really? I guess that's fine' obviously a little annoyed but it's a first prob last time meeting up and it's only coffee so whatever.

We start getting to know each other and she tells me she has plans with 2 other dudes later in the day. I laugh and say I can'tell believe you triple booked...wow.

She tells me she is meeting up with one guy from the four Seasons (where she works) to eat at a really expensive restaurant, and that she isn't into the guy but she is into the food.

Hahaha...damn never experienced that before just thought to share. Chick was 21.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I think it is important to remember that sometimes men who date these hot woman are miserable. Just because you have a hot chick next to you doesn't mean you are happy.
 

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Not so much about her looks good bad or indifferent. I was surprised how ****ty her character was. She seemed like such a sweet girl when I first met her
 

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Well at least she was honest.

I wonder how many dates she goes on in a week.
 

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Ya I appreciate honesty, I just don'the like that I was guy number 1 in a 3 guy day! Hahaha, but fu*k it whatever I'Lloyd try to get her over to shoot and try fu*& and chuck
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I think it is important to remember that sometimes men who date these hot woman are miserable. Just because you have a hot chick next to you doesn't mean you are happy.
I have to agree with you, especially if the chick is triple booked.
Girls who do this sort of thing are trying to feel their sexual and social power.
 

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She's young and hot, hey what did you expect? She probably has a boyfriend ready to bang her brains out. Maybe.

I can guarantee she has orbiters for weeks on end. Hell, I work with a waitress who models and just about all the guys except me find her really attractive. Models? Hey, they're flooded with male attention.

Alas, every woman has a man somewhere in her life. As long as you're getting what you want. I move on instantly if she just wants me in beta bucks.
 
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