"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Chick thought I was hitting on her? How could I have turned it into a neg?

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I saw this chick wearing a charger jersey waiting inline while I was. So I went up to her and this is how it went from what I remember

me: "u know, i think a Raider jersey would look good on you"
hb: "oh thank you!"
hb: "They suck though"
me: "oh well" said it in a jerkish tone


Going back to the part when she said "oh thank you" I was thinking maybe I couldve responded with somethingl ike "thank you for what?"

I wasn't trying to hit on her, just a tease. But is it just me or some women assume u think their pretty right away when you say stuff something of that nature.

"Thank you for what?" what you guys think of that comeback if it ever happens again
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Did you Peacock before you went out? If not, you messed up in Stage A0 of the game. Never go out unless you look ridiculous. Did you open the 2-set with an opinion opener to disarm the target? If she were really hot, you'd need a pawn to bring with you to get you into phase A2 of the game. After this, throw a shotgun neg at the set. If the shotgun neg isn't effective, try the sniper neg and proceed to DHV with insane storytelling and magic skills. Make sure you pay attention for IOI's such as grabbing at your c0ck and her rubbing her thighs against your face. 68% of the time when a woman does this, she's 87% attracted to you. Once you've hit the hook point, you're into phase A3, you can take it to seduction location and continue with Stage S2, and if she throws out ASD, just stick it in her.
 

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young_gun said:
Did you Peacock before you went out? If not, you messed up in Stage A0 of the game. Never go out unless you look ridiculous. Did you open the 2-set with an opinion opener to disarm the target? If she were really hot, you'd need a pawn to bring with you to get you into phase A2 of the game. After this, throw a shotgun neg at the set. If the shotgun neg isn't effective, try the sniper neg and proceed to DHV with insane storytelling and magic skills. Once you've hit the hook point, you're into phase A3, you can take it to seduction location and continue with Stage S2, and if she throws out LMS, just stick it in her.
haha, nice! :crackup:
 

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LOL!!! All I can say is, if you ever want to have sex with a woman, you must read The Game. You'll never get to where my game is at if you don't.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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every girl I've met from San Diego is a chargers fan, it's funny. it's like an easy convo piece to bust on. they're all hardcore too, I'm surprised she didn't make more of a smart-ass remark back to you

too bad neither the chargers or the raiders are going to the superbowl
 

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young_gun said:
Did you Peacock before you went out? If not, you messed up in Stage A0 of the game. Never go out unless you look ridiculous. Did you open the 2-set with an opinion opener to disarm the target? If she were really hot, you'd need a pawn to bring with you to get you into phase A2 of the game. After this, throw a shotgun neg at the set. If the shotgun neg isn't effective, try the sniper neg and proceed to DHV with insane storytelling and magic skills. Make sure you pay attention for IOI's such as grabbing at your c0ck and her rubbing her thighs against your face. 68% of the time when a woman does this, she's 87% attracted to you. Once you've hit the hook point, you're into phase A3, you can take it to seduction location and continue with Stage S2, and if she throws out ASD, just stick it in her.
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

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verysuave said:
me: "u know, i think a Raider jersey would look good on you"
hb: "oh thank you!"
hb: "They suck though"
me: "oh well" said it in a jerkish tone
Tease her back: a little jealous anyone?? (smile)

Actually, my advice is not to learn this line, but to change your mentality. Have fun with women. Try to lose the calculating vibe. Women can sense it and its creepy.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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A neg? hmmmm...

me: "u know, i think a Raider jersey would look good on you"
hb: "oh thank you!"
hb: "They suck though"
me: "Yeah but that jersey totally doesn't go with your shoes/hair/eyes!"

Too ****y not so funny
me: "u know, i think a Raider jersey would look good on you"
hb: "oh thank you!"
hb: "They suck though"
me: "yeah they do.. do you suck too?"

****y AND funny
me: "u know, i think a Raider jersey would look good on you"
hb: "oh thank you!"
hb: "They suck though"
me: "yeah you're right, you should walk around topless next time" =P

Sexual harrassment potential
me: "u know, i think a Raider jersey would look good on you"
hb: "oh thank you!"
hb: "They suck though"
me: "Oh you ACTUALLY watch the games? If you suck cck and know how to cook a good meal, you might have just bagged yourself a potential husband"
 

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Nope, theyre just desperate gullible men with too much money on their hands.
 
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young_gun said:
Did you Peacock before you went out? If not, you messed up in Stage A0 of the game. Never go out unless you look ridiculous. Did you open the 2-set with an opinion opener to disarm the target? If she were really hot, you'd need a pawn to bring with you to get you into phase A2 of the game. After this, throw a shotgun neg at the set. If the shotgun neg isn't effective, try the sniper neg and proceed to DHV with insane storytelling and magic skills. Make sure you pay attention for IOI's such as grabbing at your c0ck and her rubbing her thighs against your face. 68% of the time when a woman does this, she's 87% attracted to you. Once you've hit the hook point, you're into phase A3, you can take it to seduction location and continue with Stage S2, and if she throws out ASD, just stick it in her.
:crackup:
 

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You won't believe how powerful eye contact is. I was ordering at In N Out and I looked deeply into the cashier's left eye, who was about a HB8. I looked into her eye for about 3 seconds, and then gave my order, and kept on smiling. Next thing I know she goes out of her way to dispose of my trash after I was done eating, which I found odd because that has never happened to me before at a restaurant.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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VashStampede said:
****y AND funny
me: "u know, i think a Raider jersey would look good on you"
hb: "oh thank you!"
hb: "They suck though"
me: "yeah you're right, you should walk around topless next time" =P

Hahahaha. :up:




me: "u know, i think a Raider jersey would look good on you"
hb: "oh thank you!"
hb: "They suck though"
me: "I don't care.... I just think women in Raider jerseys are beautiful....."
me: *as you break eye contact* "Unlike any other jerseys"
 

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verysuave said:
me: "oh well" said it in a jerkish tone
That's the problem, your last response did not provoke a response from her and more specifically evoke an emotion. It just gave her a chance to remain quiet without it being awkward because you provided a convo ender. If you said ohhh well 20 mins into a convo, she might continue it if her IL is high enough. Otherwise, she'll stay quiet and just be boastful inside about the fact that yet another man wants to sex her.

MM
 

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young_gun said:
Did you Peacock before you went out? If not, you messed up in Stage A0 of the game. Never go out unless you look ridiculous. Did you open the 2-set with an opinion opener to disarm the target? If she were really hot, you'd need a pawn to bring with you to get you into phase A2 of the game. After this, throw a shotgun neg at the set. If the shotgun neg isn't effective, try the sniper neg and proceed to DHV with insane storytelling and magic skills. Make sure you pay attention for IOI's such as grabbing at your c0ck and her rubbing her thighs against your face. 68% of the time when a woman does this, she's 87% attracted to you. Once you've hit the hook point, you're into phase A3, you can take it to seduction location and continue with Stage S2, and if she throws out ASD, just stick it in her.
It might sound ridiculous, but in general women are ridiculous because they are irrational, illogical, overpriced, pedestalised and worshipped. So that's why the MM tends to work because it gets you through all these little hoops men need to jump because women don't judge men for themselves, merely on illusions. And what is Mystery good at it? Illusions aka 'Magic'. Case Closed.

MM
 

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Noob said:
i thought you said he didnt have any fans?
Sorry Noob, didn't mean to offend you and your precious seduction "guru".
 

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verysuave said:
I saw this chick wearing a charger jersey waiting inline while I was. So I went up to her and this is how it went from what I remember

me: "u know, i think a Raider jersey would look good on you"
hb: "oh thank you!"
hb: "They suck though"
me: "oh well" said it in a jerkish tone

I wasn't trying to hit on her, just a tease. But is it just me or some women assume u think their pretty right away when you say stuff something of that nature.

You have to come back and say "Maybe, but the Chargers haven't been in the superbowl since the Einsenhower adminstation". As soon as she said "they suck though" and you said "oh well", you were absorbing the put down by her, blaming yourself, and the conversation cut off. You have to keep the fire burning. Imagine you were in a relationship and she said "your friends suck" and you said "oh well". It would be a precursor for a breakup in the future. She'll think "I put him down and he agreed to it. I can use it as excuse later to break up with him"

My gf texted me last week "Where have you been? Have you disappeared?" Initially, I thought to say "No sorry, I've been really busy with work, I'll phone you tonight." But then I realized that could be used against me in the future in case we break up. In 6 weeks she could say "You're always too busy with work and don't care, my interest has dropped and we are done, thanks though." So I quickly texted back "Where have YOU been?" I turned it back on her and she phoned me 2 times that night.


Bottomline: DO NOT absorb it when she puts you down. Turn it back around on her and keep the conversation going.

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Bond: "That looks like a woman's gun."
Largo: "Do you know a lot about guns, Mr Bond?"
Bond: "No, but I know a little about women.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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