"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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MacAvoy said:
Well I think you could really benefit from the CRM software that everyone talked about. Act looks expensive but would probably pay dividends from a career perspective down the road. On the other hand $1000 is a small price to pay if it means you can get twice as much pvssy by being more effecient.
:( ... price tag for ACT = $1000... i see three Zeros is that a print error?? damn. nothing comes cheap these days.. i think i will focus on prioritising more like you said.. cause after all.. i am worth the best
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You could just use Excel, you know.
 

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Sir-M said:
:( ... price tag for ACT = $1000... i see three Zeros is that a print error?? damn. nothing comes cheap these days.. i think i will focus on prioritising more like you said.. cause after all.. i am worth the best
Not sure where you guys are shopping, or what currency you're quoting.

Here is it, $99 US
 

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MikeEdward1973 said:
You could just use Excel, you know.
Excel is good as long as you're just keeping a list. It falls short if you're scheduling dates between different women and need reminders to keep you on track to keep other plates spinning. It can get overwhelming once you start keeping more than ten columns of information and multiple rows of data about each woman. EssensialPIM is free and it gives you a bit more flexibility layout wise than Excel. It's not ACT! but it'll help.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Excel is good as long as you're just keeping a list. It falls short if you're scheduling dates between different women and need reminders to keep you on track to keep other plates spinning. It can get overwhelming once you start keeping more than ten columns of information and multiple rows of data about each woman. EssensialPIM is free and it gives you a bit more flexibility layout wise than Excel. It's not ACT! but it'll help.
You are correct, but in his case, he's looking for a free solution.

edit: I didn't realize Essential was free. But I still maintain that a free, private label version of ACT geared towards dating management, supported by ads, would make a lot of money.
 

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Not sure where you guys are shopping, or what currency you're quoting.

Here is it, $99 US
EssentialPIM will do thanks.. buyin software is really not my thing.. just makes one idiot richer... which essentially comes to my question

The Top 10 richest men in the world.. Bill Gates for Example.. is he AFC or DJ?? cause i can just imagine Melinda Gates blinging with that hard earned money, and still calling the shots..
 

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Sir-M said:
EssentialPIM will do thanks.. buyin software is really not my thing.. just makes one idiot richer... which essentially comes to my question

The Top 10 richest men in the world.. Bill Gates for Example.. is he AFC or DJ?? cause i can just imagine Melinda Gates blinging with that hard earned money, and still calling the shots..
Melinda was already doing pretty well as a Lead Developer at Microsoft BB (before Bill). Remember long ago about a home OS called Microsoft Bob? That was Melinda's baby. Too bad it got aborted.

:down: BOOOO! BAD JOKE!!! :down:
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Melinda was already doing pretty well as a Lead Developer at Microsoft BB (before Bill). Remember long ago about a home OS called Microsoft Bob? That was Melinda's baby. Too bad it got aborted.

:down: BOOOO! BAD JOKE!!! :down:
not a joke.. just a question, from my curiosity.. next example Donald trump, i mean these guys make more money a minute than i do a year, they could host a playboy party every week without ever denting their pockets... but probably spend 70% of their day wondering where their next million is coming from
 

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Sir-M said:
not a joke.. just a question, from my curiosity.. next example Donald trump, i mean these guys make more money a minute than i do a year, they could host a playboy party every week without ever denting their pockets... but probably spend 70% of their day wondering where their next million is coming from
Easy, its about what makes them tick. They didn't get to be millionares by wanting the playboy lifestyle. They got to be millionaires because being an entrepreneur or their passion made them millions.

However in guys like Donald Trump's case, I've always like the expression ... show me a man that has everything and I'll show you a man that wants more.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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