“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Chick laments that BALD, slightly older man asked her for her number

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i've approached hundreds of women im sure alot of them probably felt i wasn't good enough for them and thats ok - the key with cold approaching is to keep at it because eventually you will find good women that appreciate you and the ones the appreciate you make the rejection worth it.

end of the day we are the disposable race and rejection is part of the game- i can't expect every woman i approach to appreciate me - some women will find my approaches awkward and bad others will really like them - you can never make every girl you approach happy its simply impossible
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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NOBODY FVCKING CARES

You want to know why you don’t get laid? Because you sit all day looking up and posting incel crap on this small corner of the internet. Go outside, get some air, get a haircut, throw your clothes in the wash, I cannot understand how you are allowed to continue to post when this is all you do. It’s a tremendous amount of work to find real content and contribute to it because of this endless stream of bullsh1t. How are you not banned.
He routinely posts KYS/KMS content featuring detestable people. I don’t get it.
 

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I think his @MatureDJ his content is highly entertaining. It's definitely content I would never find because I'm NOT I'm the 7 figure bracket and spend all my available time getting there. Again, the fact that he is financially independent went over yall head...

Yall waaaay too worked up and serious. We actually need updates on what women say and think. About how rigged the game is.

I for one, believe MatureDJ his contributions are underrated and will be missed if he quits. So keep em coming..
 

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I think his @MatureDJ his content is highly entertaining. It's definitely content I would never find because I'm NOT I'm the 7 figure bracket and spend all my available time getting there. Again, the fact that he is financially independent went over yall head...

Yall waaaay too worked up and serious. We actually need updates on what women say and think. About how rigged the game is.

I for one, believe MatureDJ his contributions are underrated and will be missed if he quits. So keep em coming..
No I’m good. If I want to hit YouTube for incel content I’ll go to YouTube. I don’t need some midlife incel curating it for me on his lifeless schedule on a board that’s based for seduction advice. He’s the literal opposite of what we are going for here. 65 years old and hit the bare minimum bracket to possibly make it to median age 85 years old as a single incel. I have all sorts of data that could argue that may not even be enough. Don’t believe everything you read. Not what we’re here to talk about. 12,500 posts and a 30% like rating. The guy is pure spam. Zero posts related to personal improvement. He has no life. He’s pathetic. The data proves it. YouTube threads 3x a day, next to his computer all day type of guy. That guy is not the path you want to follow. As a matter of fact he is the perfect example of where this place has gone off track. Go take 5k of that and move to Croatia and find some broad and then come back to us. That would be useful.

I only say this because I believe in this place and there are a lot of people here trying to get their head and game on point and just want to improve. This is not only the opposite of how that’s done, again, it drowns real content that attempts to share real advice and experience on how it is actually possible.
 
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If a guy gets approached by an unattractive woman, he’s usually polite to her and doesn’t take it personally. It’s not a big deal to him.

If a chick gets approached by an unattractive man, it’s a huge deal and very personal to her.
this is true, and this is the difference.
 

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This woman is just saying out loud what many feel. Many women (not all) gauge their self-worth on the type and quality men they attract. It's not about the men that approach her, it's how she grades herself. Few women will post something like this but many women who are approached by men they do not think are attractive approach her, then she subconsciously feels she's not as attractive herself.

In this Tic-Toc post she took a little self-esteem hit, needed a boost from other women that will relate to how this makes them feel.

BTW men do this too, don't we grade ourselves on the type of women we date?
 

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This woman is just saying out loud what many feel. Many women (not all) gauge their self-worth on the type and quality men they attract. It's not about the men that approach her, it's how she grades herself. Few women will post something like this but many women who are approached by men they do not think are attractive approach her, then she subconsciously feels she's not as attractive herself.

In this Tic-Toc post she took a little self-esteem hit, needed a boost from other women that will relate to how this makes them feel.

BTW men do this too, don't we grade ourselves on the type of women we date?
what happens when she gets older and nobody approaches her?

No, most men do not grade ourselves by the women were date or else why is Zuck married to a mid Asian woman.. Or look at Bezos wife...

maybe when younger, but ultimately no...
 

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what happens when she gets older and nobody approaches her?
As men, what becomes of ditzes like these ain't our problem, any more than the rising price of cat fillet in Shanghai is to subsistence farmers in rural Nicaragua


That's what @Divorced w 3 is, I believe anyway, getting at... Large sections of The Manosphere have conned entirely too many men into thinking that spending our every waking hour prowling cyberspace for examples of how f-cked up women are = "Educating ourselves"

Same way Wokeness scammed many non-whites into thinking that scouring the news for examples of possible racism(yet rarely asking "What are some viable strategies for cleaning up the ghettoes and the barrios?")is actually "activism"
 

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what happens when she gets older and nobody approaches her?
She adjusts her expectations. An attractive 20 something year old woman is not going to 'appreciate being approached by bald middle-aged men unless that have money and status.

No, most men do not grade ourselves by the women were date or else why is Zuck married to a mid Asian woman.. Or look at Bezos wife...
First I did not say most men do this, second... I've never heard men bragging about the 'hot chick' they got, men do this, don't kid yourself. SO Zuck and Bezos are examples of most men... I wish this was true, then most of us would be billionaires.

maybe when younger, but ultimately no...
I never said otherwise.
 

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An attractive 20 something year old woman is not going to 'appreciate being approached by bald middle-aged men unless that have money and status.
a lot of guys on here were telling me that was a 'limiting belief' and that it's super easy for much older guys hitting on 20 year olds due to the confidence and grounded-ness their age gives them! :)
 

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He has no life. He’s pathetic. The data proves it. YouTube threads 3x a day, next to his computer all day type of guy.
How do you know what kind of life I don't have? How much time am I wasting listening to YouTube videos in the background (and only some are about women at that) while I monitor my stock portfolio and look for bargains in Yahoo Finance's Biggest Losers list?

And please tell me what I should be doing every hour of the day. Day-gaming? :rolleyes:
 

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How do you know what kind of life I don't have? How much time am I wasting listening to YouTube videos in the background (and only some are about women at that) while I monitor my stock portfolio and look for bargains in Yahoo Finance's Biggest Losers list?

And please tell me what I should be doing every hour of the day. Day-gaming? :rolleyes:
Your life obviously sucks. Go take some of that money and travel. It would certainly beat being SoSuave’s Biggest Loser.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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