"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Chick laments lack of chivalry

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Chivalry is dead.....and women killed it

-Dave Chapelle

this comment by V10: " We'll start acting like gentlemen when modern females start acting like ladies. Personally, I'm not holding my breath.

You won girls, you fought like hell to prove you didn't want or need a man (except to pay the bills), and that's exactly what you got: men don't want to be a part of your lives."

"a biyach is a biyach"

-Ice Cube
 

DJDamage

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Most AFC's are chivalrious because they think that going the extra mile to show what good guys they are will get them laid, but most women will see that act of chivalry as pedestaling and thus will lose interest.

So yes modern women did kill chivalry.
 

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At some point women became pigs just like us.

Hence, chivalry is dead.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I liked one of the comments: "I'll get back on the horse when you get back in the kitchen".
 

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At the time, Hanna Rosin noted that what these men did was "deeper" than chivalry. It was heroic. I agree. But heroism and chivalry share a basic feature in common—the recognition, a transcendent one, that there is something greater than the self worth protecting, and that there is something greater than the self worth sacrificing your own needs, desires, and even life for.
And that special thing worth dying for is....women? Nah brah. Unless you are my mama, my daughter or my wife, you aren't worth my life. Sorry. Family only.
 

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chivalry died a long time ago. when I was 18 or 19 I was shopping, went out the door afterwards, held the door for a 25-ish woman. This beeatch yanked it and with a very pizzed off attitude says "I could have got the d@m thing myself". I have watched women decline ever since. Chivalry died in about '80, like many other obsolete conditions.
 

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Warrior74 said:
And that special thing worth dying for is....women?
And not just any women...we are talking spoiled, entitled, feminist, attention-whoring, divorce-happy modern day "womyn" who have zero respect for men. Yeah, I wouldn't think twice about dying to save someone like the author of that article..
 

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A horseman keeps himself informed, studies and writes, practices the cultural and military arts, serves the community, honors his family, and lives his beliefs. As the man enjoys the richness of life, he changes. Using good manners becomes part of the whole. The horseman doesn't notice it. Only a man living the wretched, impoverished life of the masses notices the better manners of the horseman. In vulgar usage, chivalry is associated with opening doors for women. Rather, that's such a small and common act that the horseman is surprised that anyone reacts in any way whatsoever when he does it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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