chick jokes about HIV

[Demon Wolf]

There is a girl that I have been studying with for a couple weeks and she jokes about her having HIV/AIDS. Because she jokes about it I am very hesitant to trust her.

I am not sure as to whether she wants to hookup or is just flirting (she rubbed my ass the other night).

I was molested as a child so I am nervous, but I eventually want to have physical relationship with a female.

 

[Mr. Wolf]

Let's say that she wants you to sarge her, but you are hesitant.. She now jokes about having AIDS, is making fun of you, you don't sarge me PUA because I have AIDS...

Is this the case? Perhaps this is not the case?

Perhaps you were sarging her and escalating, and she likes you, but she has HIV and she wants you but she knows she should not have sex with you.. You can find out more by being serious with her and having an upfront conversation.


In both instances I would not touch that chick. She ruined it by joking about such a killer STD. I love myself too much and would rather do it myself in front of my computer watching a nice porno..


In case you need to get rid of her, when she jokes again, tell her.. Damn girl, I wouldn't touch you with a stick, I would rather jerk off to a nice porno.

 

[Demon Wolf]

I seriously doubt that I should trust this chick.

 

[Mr. Wolf]

One more thing just crossed my mind man.. Is it possible that you are so all over that chick that she though it would be funny to see if you still game her if she told you she had AIDS?

Maybe she's playing.. Flirt back, like check her out, pull her close and check her forehead for temperature, some crazy kino like that.. Ahhh, you don't have AIDS............... That means we can have a sexual relationship after all........................... If you qualify.......

 

[Sandow]

How Many Wolves Do We Have Here?

 

[amethyst]

one hundred and seven and still counting!

 

[Road Demon]

Thats something you Do Not Joke about, IMHO.

My guess says that is likely HIV infected. By joking about it, she attempts to make it common in your converstation with her, so it removes the stigma associated with it. Then you get to know her as potential romantic interest over time, then she pulls the card you always knew my status, etc. Oh then she will say, it will be OK, we will be extra careful and use protection.

Yes, there ARE HIV infected people out there. Not all of them are IV drugs users or Gay. Only in very end stages of the disease are real clinical signs apparent, esp. with these new, advanced drug therapy available now.

OK lets say she does not HIV, but at the very least a she is very immature. Perhaps she has a Personality Disorder like NPD.

In any event that is HUGE RED FLAG. Stay Away.

 

[Demon Wolf]

Thats something you Do Not Joke about, IMHO.

My guess says that is likely HIV infected. By joking about it, she attempts to make it common in your converstation with her, so it removes the stigma associated with it. Then you get to know her as potential romantic interest over time, then she pulls the card you always knew my status, etc. Oh then she will say, it will be OK, we will be extra careful and use protection.

Yes, there are HIV infected people out there. On in very end stages of the disease are real clinical signs apparent, esp. with these new, advanced drugs.

Ok say she does not HIV, at the very least a she is very immature. Perhaps she has a Personality Disorder like NPD.

In any event that is HUGE RED FLAG. Stay Away.

Amen

 

[Heart Break Kid]

Hey Demonwolf, sorry about that inane comment we will watch him from now on. As for your situation, I agree with the redflag. I would not consider it unless you guys were in high school and it was a stupid joke but looking at your age I say she has problems. If you're curious perhaps ask one of her friends?
PS: Haha at all the wolves.

 

[MooseGod]

That's not really cool...kinda like a chick joking about being pregnant.

 

[Demon Wolf]

I was thinking...Ask her about it and be like hey if you are going to joke about having a horrible disease I do not want to hang out with you. I had an uncle die of lung cancer so I am not cool with you joking about having hiv/aids. And if you want to hook up I want to see an std test (I am not sure even what these look like).

Ask her if she is sexually active and gets tested.

But I do not want to hook up with someone who even jokes about such things.

 

[Demon Wolf]

The first time she said she had aids she smiled and touched me and said she did not.

Last night when I studied with her she had her arm around mine and we were walking to a table and she said I hope you brought a condom, because I have aids. Then I said Uh, and she says she doesn't have it.

I think I will give her one more chance with the warning and forget her if she crosses the line.

 

[godofanxiety]

I sounds like she wants to tell you she has aids in a way you won't take it bad enough not to have sex with her, but seriously enough to use a condom. I wouldn't do anything with her.

 

[Rex Man]

Maybe she's not joking. Has she SAID she's joking?

 

[DJDamage]

ever thought about saying "well maybe we should get tested together, that would be funny!"

and see if her face drops.

 

[Demon Wolf]

Chilling thought *shudder*

I do not think she actually has said "Demon I am joking."
I am asking her about a test and a very recent one or I am not going near her.

 

[mostwantedbabyfather]

Man that is not something to joke about. What was the outcome demon?

 

[iqqi]

How many demons do we have???