"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Chick is Killing my Confidence!

jmeh13

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I hate how just when you think you have this whole game figured out and your dating tons of beautiful women one chick comes a long and messes it all up for you.

I have been seeing this chick for the past few months blah blah she is the whole nine yards hot, amazing w/e. The first few times we went out it was amazing she told me all these things about her and we had fun and she couldn't keep her hands off me. but for the past few weeks she has been distant i guess. I hate to think like this but im constantly thinking wtf am I doing wrong. I like this chick who are we to joke but i feel if maybe i was coming on strong you know texting and calling somewhat more usual than i normally would.

i guess what do you do when you feel like you are loosing it with a girl but dont want to loose the girl?
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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slickaz

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have you read ANY of the stuff on this forum?

two things that STAND OUT LOUDLY

- Do not contact a girl too much - as in go a couple days without contact
- Do not constantly praise her and treat her like a prize..

It seems you've done both.

You need to stop contactin her so much..let her chase you.
put your fone down dude..no seriously..put it down..dont text..dont call.
and trust! she will chase you..


try it..
 

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jmeh13, are you okay? Are you sure? You're not feeling sick or anything?

Yeah, 'cause I heard there's some onitis going around and you seem to have caught it. Sorry, jmeh.

I hate to be bearer of bad news, but you have 8 days to live. And by 8 days to live I actually mean that you have 1 day to get your balls back. I'll help you, hem13, it's easy.

Yes, she's amazing. Yes, she's super hot. Yes, she's got the 'best personality in the world'. But... but... sh*t, where was I going with this?

Oh yeah, yes, she is all that, but so what? There are plenty of hot people, There are plenty of amazing people, hell, I'm amazing (Do not try to date me), and there are a lot of people with great personalities out there.

What I'm trying to say is if she's too good, you're going to have to kill her. Or, if murder's not your forte, then you could always just realize that no matter how good you think she is, there's always someone better (like Keanu Reeves!)

There are however many other secrets to get around this problem. Take for example a little known technique called the- Sorry to interrupt, but I just found out that Keanu Reeves is in fact a man and not a woman. I retract my previous statement.

But back to what I saying Keanu13, she's really not as good as you think she is. So don't put her on some huge pedestal that you can't even reach.

I want you to do something for me, Keanu, alright? If you EVER find yourself thinking that you're lucky to be with her, I want you to punch yourself in the face! You got that? I'll have none of that BS here! Because you're awesome, you've got a great personality and you're a fairly attractive person (no homo). You're the F*CKING MAN!

And if all else fails, picture her taking a massive dump.
 
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