"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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chick in my class, should I change my act?

jigga23

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My most success with women has come when i would totally act ****y, too good, etc. A lot of chicks will say omg i thought you were so stuck up/****y etc. They would usually approach at some point. i say heres my number call me if you wanna hang out, which they usually do, Then its all down hill from there.

So theres this chick in one of my classes its only once a week. Its been going on since septemeber. Everytime we catch eyes with each other at least 3 times a class. If im wrong about us being attracted to each other then i dont nkow anymore. Ive been out of my ltr for about 8 months now. Another chick came along that i somewhat knew but anways she gave me the speech oh you seemed so ****y, stuck up etc. your blah blah and you know it etc. with her i kissed her could have fvcked her (in her bed but decided to sleep) etc but i fvcked up because i think i showed weakness at one point probably after i didnt bone her immediatlye and she started playing hard games.

so with this chick i can sense it that she has that perception of me ****y stuck up whatever. she thinks this cause i dont go up to her and game her or anything. i think as soon as i go up to her she might lose interest. cause its happened a lot times with me. girls admit they are attracted to me but as soon as i make one step forward they put up a shield. if i dont im money. So my question is should i just keep what im doing and just say fvck it and if she finally comes and talks to me she does. or should i sit down next her next class for the first time and talk to her. swear like when i got up to leave class tonight she was sitting right in front of me and out of the corner of my eye she was starring right at me. every class we make eye contact like crazy.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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cyp6

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dude change yo game.. just try it... seems like you are not being pro active with the way you set upyour game. you have to act ****y and funny yes, but also have to be pro active meaning you have to get them, they will not come to you.. especially the very hot women.
 

jigga23

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ive had like hb8.5+ come up to me and i took them home and fvcked them the first night. so i dont know.
 

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the point is; When you want something you go get it. Being a go-getter.

..not waiting for it. As you risk someone else tkaing it from under your nose.
 
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