chick in chem

[Demon Wolf]

I got a chick's digits in my chem class for a study group.

I think she is in to me cuz she rubbed her knee against my leg numerous times during class.
When she gave me her # she practically jumped on me and rubbed her boob against my arm while she was writing her number down. It was funny.

I am not sure when to call since she said no study group this weekend. I am planning on waiting till next week to call.

Also I have never been in a study group before so I am not sure how to use it to build attraction. Any tips would be appreciated.

 

[Ace of Flames]

Call this weekend regardless. You don't wanna study with her anyway, right? I mean, that's not the only thing you want to do. I'm sure you'd like to study anatomy. ^_^

 

[Demon Wolf]

There are 2 parties that I have heard of tonight so call her and ask if she wants to go?

Thing is I have not partied in a while and am rather nervous. It is not paintball where I can always shoot, duck and dodge.

And yes I want to study her anatomy with her.

I have never even been kissed. I am not usually comfortable with being touched but I feel comfortable around this girl.

Even though I am very level headed I have little experience with females what can I do to keep my cool?

 

[Ace of Flames]

Remember: She's not a girl, she's your little sister. Treat her as such. And does your little sis ever make you nervous? No. So just chill out and tease her all the time. Be playful, just like you would with your sis. At least until it comes time to do uh... grown up things. Lol.

If you take her to a party, be ready for other guys to be hitting on her. And even worse, she might like one of those guys better than you. I hope you can keep her interested.

Why are you uncomfortable with being touched? Touching is a very good thing. It feels nice by itself, and it usually leads to much better things...

 

[Demon Wolf]

I will not party with her then. I am planning on going with some friends.
I do not have a little sister. I think she is an underclassmen so I should tease her about being a stupid freshmen.

I was sexually assaulted as a kid and that is why I do not usually care for being touched. I am in therapy and gradually getting over it, but still having flashbacks.

 

[Alkali]

Sounds kind of whorish.

But then again, you gave very little information.

Your call I guess.

 

[Ace of Flames]

I didn't mean the little sister thing literally... >_>

You have a long way to go bud. The advice was to TREAT her as if she WAS your little sister. Don't call her stupid.

I can understand how its hard with the trauma you had before, but you shouldn't have to be afraid of a woman's touch. If she's touching you, its almost always a good thing. Unless it was a woman that assaulted you... in that case, uh... I dunno what to tell you. But good luck in getting past that.

 

[Demon Wolf]

So tease in a way that's funny. Do not worry about screwin up.

Should I invite her to do something with me the first time I call? Like lunch if we are on campus and have a break at the same time.