"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Chick I'm taking to formal, now going out with another guy

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Kino-phobia
Well as of yesterday, the chick who I was going to the formal with, is now going out with another guy. I've noticed that she's had a lot of interest in him for a while now. It's been about 4 weeks since I asked her to the formal (gave her a rose and everything), and the formal is in November.
So I have three choices:
1. I wait and see if their relationship lasts. If it doesn't then I we go together at the end of the year.
2. It the relationship does last then I let them two go together and I go solo :)()
3. I say, "screw it" and call the formal off. Telling her to go with her boyfriend or someone else regardless of whether they are still together at the end of the year.

So I've got a little bit of a dilema. I haven't talked to her since she had started going out (I heard it from a friend). So she doesn't know my response. How should I react? What would you do if you were in my situation?
Thanks
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Don't act desperate, it's her loss, not much you can do. Do not try to convince her about you.
 
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Waiting till the end of the year is seriously desperate, try to hook up with another girl, there's tons of them
 
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The girl I took to prom was 18 graduwated last year and was going out with a softmore but i still took her then i fell for her and now Im stuck i think she moved on before i could ask her out o well anyways back to your problem, I say stick with it she knows she is supposed to go with you eh? then just wait and see how the relationship turns out most go to heck in the first few weeks anyways.
 
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Originally posted by J.O
try to hook up with another girl, there's tons of them
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yes, there are tons of them, but in the USA that can mean 1 girl :p
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
yes, there are tons of them, but in the USA that can mean 1 girl :p
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Funny man! I live in Texas... yeah yeah yeah.. "everything is bigger in Texas" especialy the chicks! They are either superhot... or total fatties!
 
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Yeah, I know, waiting till the end of the year is desperate. But shes the only chick I want to go with. In our grade there are 40 girls and 120 boys. Making it a 3:1 ratio. All the chicks in our grade have already been asked, either that or they are too ugly. Thats why I'm saying that if I don't go with her, I go with no one. Also .. is it normal for this sort of thing to happen? Agreeing to go to the formal with someone, then going out with other people in the meantime?
The guy who is dating her also has a date to the formal himself, I don't know what she thinks of it though.
 
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Use sports as an analogy ALWAYS. You lost her to another guy, it's over, you probably deserve her more then he does, but you don't have her, life's not fair. But! I got good news for you my friend, you DONT/NEVER HAD a delima, because there is only ONE thing you can do and that is find a new ho*. Best of luck mate.
 
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