"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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gimmeyofonenumba

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Im pissed as hell right now. This stupid chick craves for my attention, I can tell ,and I like talking with her. Yet she plays stupid games and when my friends and I meet up with her. (She used to work with my friend) but her and I met outside of that at school. At class one day she even told me she met a cool guy. A few days later, 2 of her friends told me she likes me. Yet,She gives my friend so much attention, hugs,etc. tells him "I've been trying to reach you",etc. She doesnt really say much to me. At the time I was like...whatever. I never mention anything, I just play it cool like I dont care. WTF!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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fvck that *****, if she wants to play games like this she can go fvck the monopoly guy
 
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This girl is obviously a hooker. Next time you are with your friend, have a tape recorder and record stuff he says, like "man i want to fvck that b*tch so bad" and then show her the tape. :) It's THAT EASY!
 
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LaoDa

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shes a dumb b itch.....shes obvously an AW or mildy retarded.. either way go find some other girl whos normal...
 
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Mixed signals are always a red flag.

Although some chicks do use (dumb) tactics like "this guy asked me out" or other stuff like flirting with other guys to make a guy jealous and try to spur him into making a move, it is the speciality of young, immature chicks and game players.

A chick who is genuinely into you will not blow hot and cold, she will MAKE IT EASY for you - provide you opportunities to ask her out. You say she loves your attention, but she hardly ever talks to you when your friends are around. So if what happens is that when other guys are around she gets attention off them instead, then you know you're nothing special to her (i.e. your attention is what she craves, NOT you).

Imagine it like a car needing gas - it doesn't matter what filling station you get it from, so long as you get it (it's a commodity, it all has the same effect). Gas is the fuel of a car as attention is the fuel of an AW - fuel for her ego.

Although you provided little info, you seeingly called it already saying she craves your attention, this chick is likely an attention wh0re. If you really want to know the situation (and get some closure before you risk oneitis), ask her out on a one-on-one date and try to kiss her on the lips - if either fails, she is just a game playing AW. If that happens you MUST drop any thoughts of you and her together because once you've definitively shown your interest by asking her out she will dangle the carrot in front of you forever and lead you on for as long as you let her.

I'm betting she's just an AW and you won't get anywhere here.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Hitman10000

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Hmm, no where in your post did it indicate that you are dating this chick. Until you are actually going out one on one with this chick, what you say has no validation that she is being an attention wh*re like the rest of the boys are saying in this thread.

Instead of directing your anger towards this girl, direct the anger to yourself for the failure to actually setting up a date with her.
 
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Badmannaz

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dude pull the Fvck out now....stop liking her....she's a huge AW and i garuntee when it's all over your gonna feel like sh!t...and she won't give a sh!t

Trust everyone who says pull out...don't be desperate .....she's gonna say **** like

1. i like you the most
2.he means nothing

pull-out dude get another girl...don't be desperate and settle for anything...
 
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