"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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theNEWDJ

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this hot chick i was with last night gave me her number and she told me to call her today.. do u guys think i should? i know your suppose to wait but im gonna be busy all next week and weekend and i want to chill with her

but i wouldnt know what to do besides like hanging out at my house, she probobly wants to smoke some crhonic with me but I really cant cause Im very dedicated to a sport right now, damn peer pressure

what are some good things to do with stoner chicks haha but I cant smoke haha
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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invite her over your house.. U could watch a movie...**** her brains out.. u think. its not that hard.
 

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Just watch a movie, let her smoke if she wants, stoners dont care if others dont smoke, as long as you dont preach
 

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ok thanks guys - update on this chick - I really like her and would like an LTR with her.. i went away for a little and apparantly she missed me.. she called me one night (when she was drunk) - saying that she wishes i was back home so i could get with her or something like that...
tonight i hung out with her and just cuddled like exploring a little and watched a movie, i thinking she must like me but i dont want to screw sh*T up... and also i cant smoke and drink which she does every weekend - (which is pretty normal for our city) and im pretty sure shes not a virgin and i am...

i know i gotta stop thinking about her so much but this chick is like amazingly hot and fun to hang out with i actually enjoy being with her

any tips would be great - thanks everyone!
 

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invite her over, explain to her why you can't smoke if she asks you; if she doesn't understand then shes not as great as you say.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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also how often should i hang out with her like a hung out with her last night but tonight i couldnt cause of my sport and she texted me telling me to come over
 

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ok i made out with her last night at the movies it was cool, but i dont kno whats gonna happen next any tips would be great please help
 

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hello! first things first, dont lose ur head over this girl. rmb that u are the one qualifying her and not the other way round. once u got this straight, we can now move on to other things. u gotta remain calm and in control, think ahead and anticipate any sticky situations that might arise. anyways, u having ur sport and not being able to hang out with her is not a bad thing ya know? after all, a dj is always busy with his own life and girls are jz but another aspect of life. ok i know i didnt phrase the last part as nicely as i wanted to.
 

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thanks guys.. it got more complicated last night cause she was at a party drinking and i hung out with this other girl instead but i was planning on picking her up later cause the other girl had to be in later but i got in trouble with my parents and i couldnt go get her, but not seeing her makes me want to see her sooo much more but i dont want to be the one to call her but i really want to see her tonight
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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also do u think i should get her something for christmas, were not goin out so i dunno and also its her birthday on tuesday so may b ill take her out to dinner or soemthing
 
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