MatureDJ
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
chick goes on date with man, then texts him 65000 times!
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
flowtheory
Master Don Juan
She has a scarcity mindset.
He must be a SS member; his game was tight. Made her hampster go into overdrive!
He must be a SS member; his game was tight. Made her hampster go into overdrive!
Serenity
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Uhm, I haven't and most people haven't, because most people aren't that batsh!t crazy!Article said:
flowtheory
Master Don Juan
Lol next story will be a write up on the writer of the article
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
That's the kind of interest level you don't want!
Von
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I lived that in 2015! Never again.
The girl would Facebook me and send me 30000 messages a day with pics (funny stuff)
It was enough to empty my cellphone battery (cause all my Facebook was send on my phone too) within the hour.
Never again. At least, when i told her it was over (our dating).. She only tried to reach me 3 times within 2 years
The girl would Facebook me and send me 30000 messages a day with pics (funny stuff)
It was enough to empty my cellphone battery (cause all my Facebook was send on my phone too) within the hour.
Never again. At least, when i told her it was over (our dating).. She only tried to reach me 3 times within 2 years
greatsnake
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SS member pulled a couple of learned methods from this site and got that woman addicted.
You guys joke, but I once had a married woman turn up at my house at midnight in just a trench coat and lingerie. She'd driven two hours. You hit the right buttons on the wrong woman and you'll have a crazy on your hands!