"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Chick getting p**sed off

bunjy

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Weird situation here but amusing nonetheless.

A month or so ago I had this chick who was a complete AW and was generally being a total flake, giving me the run around and just playing far too many games. I bascially gave up and moved on (eventually) and that was that.

Anyway about 2 weeks ago she started contacting me again, now i geniunley had lost interest in her and was gaming a few other chicks so have been fairly unresponsive to her attempts to hook up.

Now heres the amusing factor, today she txted me asking if I wanted meet later and I was unsure if I could be bothered so responded with a maybe. Fast forward to this evening and she txts me asking if I wanna meet her in a hour, I reply with a general excuse as I felt crappy (hangover) and couldnt really be doing with dealing with her. Anyway she responded with a massively pi**sed off txt expressing how obviously annoyed she was at me sortof flaking on her.

LOL, women hey. When the shoes on the other foot and us men play abit of the s**t they regularly throw at us (whilst expecting us to be cool) they cant handle it and all. Plus shes a stunner so she probably isnt used to guys flaking on her. I figure now she'll either never contact me again or go all out and give it her best shot to hook up.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Jblitz59

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you said it yourself she flaked you and played massively games. You don't need that, don't look for a relationship because she will hurt you. use ur insight to avoid pain
 

Juice09

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Lmao! I love this ****. She probably thought she was "playing hard to get" and that you you were "loving the chase." Women think they're masters of the game by flaking on guys and giving them the run around, than when their bull**** games don't have the desired effect, they can't handle it.
 
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