"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Chick gave wrong #

amoka

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This chick I know from the gym apparently lives next door to me... A shy girl, if you ask me. On my way out yesterday, I run into her... well dressed up heading to a night club. So I chat her up few minute and got her number. So, I called the number she game me just to make sure... anyway, I noticed her phone in her hand but the phone never rang. I asked her why she's gave me a wrong number and that she did not have to give me the number if she does not want to. Anyway, few minutes later, some dude called and I told him it was a wrong number. I of course deleted the number immediately.

Anyway, I am bound to meet this chick again.. either at the gym or in the neighborhood. Should she be confronted on the matter? Actually, NO.

Writing this just made me realize it will be fruitless to confront this chick... but what do you all think?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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amoka said:
I noticed her phone in her hand but the phone never rang. I asked her why she's gave me a wrong number and that she did not have to give me the number if she does not want to.
What was her response?
 

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A wrote ---"Writing this just made me realize it will be fruitless to confront this chick... but what do you all think?"

A---

You are correct......

She's a chick...

She doesn't work on the same honor system we do...

She in her mind has no accountability to you or anyone else....

You confront her and you're just another @sshole....(and you've justified her sh!tty behaviour in her mind)

Act like it didn't happen ....

When you see her be polite but not overly friendly....

Don't act hurt and pouty.....

She brings the deal up again you laugh and make fun of her for being a flake....

You are after all a man and have more positive things going on in your life right now than you can even deal with...

A flaky bim from next door is barely noticible to you....

She'll come around in time.....

By then you probably won't even want to deal with her.....

Over and Out.
 

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amoka said:
This chick I know from the gym apparently lives next door to me... A shy girl, if you ask me. On my way out yesterday, I run into her... well dressed up heading to a night club. So I chat her up few minute and got her number. So, I called the number she game me just to make sure... anyway, I noticed her phone in her hand but the phone never rang. I asked her why she's gave me a wrong number and that she did not have to give me the number if she does not want to. Anyway, few minutes later, some dude called and I told him it was a wrong number. I of course deleted the number immediately.

Anyway, I am bound to meet this chick again.. either at the gym or in the neighborhood. Should she be confronted on the matter? Actually, NO.

Writing this just made me realize it will be fruitless to confront this chick... but what do you all think?
After reviewing your case, I've noticed that you called the number to make sure, awesome move. Judge Nismo has to give you props for that.

I don't know about shy, but it seems like this girl just wasn't that into you. Don't confront her on the matter. Women lie and play games all the time and they are getting better and better daily.

The girl was caught up in her lie and she knows you're not one to play with. Act like the wrong # didn't faze you and just go after another girl, cuz this "shy girl" is just not that into you. That's my ruling.

Case closed.
 

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The best thing to do is don't even look at her. If she says hi, so be it. Say hi back. But just think that she's not there. Because in reality, she isn't there. She's a selfish, manipulative, human being. Why would you converse with someone who doesn't have the courage to say "I'm sorry, I'm taken, can't give you my number". Just don't converse. This happens all the time to men. This is why you shouldnt ask for number until you build rappor and if she's single.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Yeah, I don't think this chick was being truthful to begin with. She said she has been living in my neighborhood since August of last year but I have never seen her there before. I think she was visiting a someone over there. She simply was not truthful.

Maxtro, when I confronted her on the matter... she began to proceed to head into her car saying, "yeah, that's the right number...." women...

nismo, I agree with you...this chick simply was not digging me. It feels much better knowing this.
 

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If a chick gives you a wrong number you know from the beggining she is not a team player. You dont want to date such women. Next!!
 

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Alle_Gory said:
No, she gave you the right number. She just wasn't interested.
how do you know she gave him the right number? were you there?
 

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Think he means the right number was the wrong number, that was her way of saying she wasn't interested. Pretty *****y way to do it. She could have just lied and said she was involved, pretty dumb move considering she's his neighbor.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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