chick from college

[lucky13]

met this chick in my math class, first day we talked and she asked me for my number leaving class, we talked our way through the semester but now i havent talked to her in awhile. over xmas break we talked for a bit, and she said we should get together sometime and hangout when school starts again --shoot some pool sometime and i said i didnt know how so she would have to teach me (mistake?), then we talked about other stuff for awhile and havent talked since. well now that the break is over, should i call her up/text her, if so, what should i say?

 

[lucky13]

anyone please?

 

[MVPlaya]

How long since you last spoke (in days)? She's sent you numerous IOI's (Indicators of Interest), to list:

1) She asked you for your number.

That means she's into you and she's taking the steps in seducing you. From this point you need to make sure she keeps at this process. Never making a move yourself will make her feel you're not interested or really clueless.

2) She suggests you get together.

She wants you to ask her on a date or suggest a "meet up" of sorts.

3) She says she'll teach you pool.

The classic "let me brush up against you and bend you over the pooltable while I teach you how to hold a stick." Thats a pretty sexual come on.


From reading this I'm going to make two guesses:

1) You're hot.
2) You have no real experience with women, do you?

I'd say if you last talked to her in less than 10 days to give her a call, see hows she's doing, what she's up to, tell her to come with you to [lunch / a game of pool / movies], and take it from there.

If its been quite a while, since it seems you may have staled on her, make more casual contact with her first, compliment her in a flirting way (show interest, I'm guessing you haven't given her any SOI's), if she's receptive, then tell her to hang out with you sometime.

-MV

 

[gsxtreme1987]

wtf man.. .she gave you all those hints and you didnt do anything??

Damn i hope it hasnt been too long since you guys last talked.. cause if its been a while then forget it.

 

[lucky13]

i called her up, and we talked for a bit, she said that she has a hard time finding time for extra thing now tho with school/work... i took this to mean she didnt want to hangout, then a couple days later, she calls me again and we just talked for a bit, how do i ask her out? ive suggested we got get these deserts from this local place, and she just kind of brushes it off (laughs and says alright, but then ends the conversation or topic)

any more help please?