“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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chick friendzoned me and now asks for a date

joker79

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guys, long story short: painful push&pull story, I jumped through the hoops until I decided to walk away, I was done and tired. She threw at me the "I'm not ready for a relationship" but it never was the full story with her, so a guy could have been moving behind the scene without me being aware of anything.
I Met her and I acted completely aloof and indifferent: result was that now she'd like to go for drinks with me. I'm done with her and I'm not interested anymore, don't want to bang her. I haven't replied to her request yet but I have three options:

1) no answer
2) politely reject the offer
3) say ok, set up the date and then flake.

which to you recommend guys? my objective is to give her a taste of her own medicine, I'm not interested in revenge as I've got 5 plates spinning.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Robert28

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Go out with her AS LONG AS YOU MAKE IT CRYSTAL CLEAR THAT SHE PAYS FOR HER OWN SH!T.
 

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She is a game-playing attention wh0re egomaniac.

At this point her interest in you has not changed. She just wants to see if she still has the power to make you jump. She wants to see if she can get away with all the abuse she dished out. She wants to see if you have limits.. or if you she can still play you like a piano.

Jumping through hoops is always a big mistake. You pedestalize the woman and make it clear she is the higher status person in the relationship. Beta FAIL.

I have 3 suggestions for you. They all depend on what would give you the most satisifaction. For me it would be the first one:

1. Ignore her until the end of time
2. Set up a date and flake. Then ignore her until the end of time.
3. Have her come to your place for the date and try to f*ck her. If you fail.. ignore her until the end of time.

Pick one. :up:
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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