Chick Fatigue

[londonguy89]

I have a big problem approaching women. It's the fact that I don't like to give them attention in any way. I've been rejected almost universally in the past. I hate feeding their egos which means that I get really annoyed if a girl rejects me in early stages of interaction i.e. before any words have been exchanged or if I say something and get ignored or a quick courtesy response then a turned back. I now find it hard to work up attraction or interest in 99% women now. I am seeing a few girls that I meet/met online but I never feel like they are really in to me it's more that they like the attention. I find it hard to build up a real bound because I don't really like women in general now. Pretty much all women bring me is problems feelings low worth. I'm not someone who is not super unattractive, I work out a lot, I'm not too nice, I dress well but I'm not a super macho guy, I'm only 5'7 and I reckon my height is a big part of it. Plus I have loads of friends I get on well with, so not a social outcast.

I don't want advice to be better with women. I'm looking for advice from guys who've had the same problem, of finding women boring and uninteresting and if this is normal. I'm not asking for sympathy, and please be grown up about this.

 

[foreverAFC]

i feel similar. im pretty disgusted by the dating game, even when i get IOIs from women it just disappoints me cause im just reminded of the 5 or 6 other guys she is stringing along plus the 10 or 11 orbiters that i would have to compete with and pretend to be friends with, all the lies and flaking and excuses etc...i just said **** it and i just focus on myself and my hobbies. if someone really awesome comes along then great, if not then whatever.

 

[Renegade357]

I think the stuff you guys are saying is more funny than anything else. Yeah you have to deal with all that garbage. Orbiterz, triffling wenches, flaking, passive aggressiveness, lies all that crap is true. In fact I truly believe that it represents about 90% of the women out there in America. I mean why should a 7 get to treat men like crap and have 10 orbiterz around them at all times? It's like these average women have their own personal harem.

Anyway, all this stuff is to be laughed about and shrugged off. I can assure you though this does not represent 100% of women out there. If you change your attitude, up your game and start dropping the bad ones immediately you'll be shocked how fast you run into a good girl.

The most important thing I ever learned when it comes to women is how to reject them even if you like them. The more ruthless you become the faster you find Miss Right.